Do you believe if someone has good qualities, but doesnt attract you , that you should settle with them ?
2006-12-21 23:53:34 · 11 answers · asked by Arthur D 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Absolutely not! Like my Mother always says "It will either grow or die". Life is too short to just settle!! When the right one comes along, you will know, and you will be so happy you did not settle for the wrong one!
2006-12-21 23:57:07 · answer #1 · answered by Angel333... 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no because you'll spend the whole time with them feeling like you are just friends, which you could be anyways, only you're technically "taken" and will be tied down if you ever do find the person who DOES attract you. Just stay being close friends. Thats not being alone, and wait until someone extra special comes along
2006-12-21 23:55:57 · answer #2 · answered by sunkist3122 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no. fear of being alone leads people to make a lot of mistakes and have a lot of regrets (trust me i know). attraction is not everything but it is a major part of wanting to be with the one ur with so if u know right of jump that u aint attracted to someone dont even bother...ur setting urself up for disappointments later on down the road. but the flip side to that is...u may start off not being physically attracted to that person....but the more ur around them and see their good qualities...they start to become beautiful to u from the inside out.
2006-12-22 00:01:07 · answer #3 · answered by MsNic 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Years in the past. I settled for financial motives particularly than the suitable motives. It lasted two decades. two decades of being dealt with as a 2d type citizen, a maid, chief cook and bottle washer, head laundress. My roll in the mattress room replaced into "if no one replaced into available in the bars then i'd would desire to do"! He married me for my babies and seems. My seems held out long after my babies began failing, so he went out to change me with somebody youthful. I raised 2 daughters and that i had 2 of the 5 Grandkids whilst i desperate i replaced into extra constructive than how he seen me so I walked and that i've got in no way regretted it.
2016-12-15 06:08:11 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, my, an AGE old question. Who knows how the human mind works when it comes to these things? I certainly don't but used to think I did. The hot button, can't-wait-to-get-my-hands-on-her stuff generally doesn't last too long after the honeymoon for most couples. But it's nice to start that way.
2006-12-22 00:00:50 · answer #5 · answered by DelK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never settle for something less than you desire. It will only end in resentment towards that person, and yourself!
2006-12-22 00:29:12 · answer #6 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it will not be a healthy relationship. Why waste this persons time for your selfish reason for not wanting to be alone, actually that is just mean.
2006-12-21 23:59:03 · answer #7 · answered by Barry W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think attraction is important.. i'd say that you find someone that sparks your interest and that attracts you..
but that's just my opinion...
if you want to be safe, i guess you could settle.. but if you want more, i say don't.. :D
2006-12-21 23:58:57 · answer #8 · answered by ashantelle1830 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no you should never just settle with someone you should find someone who completes you.
2006-12-21 23:57:42 · answer #9 · answered by laurenj677 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope. Just because I'm alone doesn't mean I'm lonely.
2006-12-21 23:57:15 · answer #10 · answered by ♥Ms. Heart♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋