Was this wrong?
I have a long-term girlfriend, but the other day one of her attractive friends suggested that she and I have a bath together. Which we did, and it was very nice and bubbly.
Was this the wrong thing to do? Was it more than a bath in this woman's mind?
2006-12-21 23:48:21 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
uh yeah. baths are a private thing when you're ALONE. when you share them with someone else it becomes intimate and sexual. You definitely were wrong.
2006-12-21 23:50:58 · answer #1 · answered by sunkist3122 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
You did what again???
A bath with one of your girlfriedns friends?
Of course this is not appropriate. Would you be ok if your girlfriend took a bath wiht one of your mates?
It is a very intimate activity, you do not just do that with random people.By the way who cares about what this stands for in this woman's mind, you are the one in a long-term relationship!!
You should have known better.......please do not do that again,ever!That is if you love your girlfriend and do not want to hurt her feelings.
2006-12-22 07:56:09 · answer #2 · answered by NG 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The standard by which you have to judge your actions are not ones you'll find here but in the mind of your long time gf--if you do, indeed, care about her. What do you care if it was more than a bath in the mind of the woman? You don't sound very committed to the gf.
2006-12-22 12:28:26 · answer #3 · answered by DelK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have to ask if what you did was right or not then it probably wasnt.How would you feel if she took a nice bubbly bath with one of your friends ? Now you need to figure out how youre going to tell her what you did because she's going to find out sooner or laret anyhow (we always do)and it really would be best if she hears it from you-now rather than from someone else-later
2006-12-22 07:54:59 · answer #4 · answered by pammi_b 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Its more than wrong, its pretty much cheating. How would you feel if she had a bath with one of your mates? If you were my boyfriend i wouldnt hesitate to dump you!!! If you'll have a bath with another girl and get naked and in an intimate bubble bath, god knows what else your capable of. Stop trying to make it sound innocent...
2006-12-22 07:59:49 · answer #5 · answered by Lilly lola 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if nothing happened in the bath or even before or after then I doubt this will happen with this lady again as I guess she'll be thinking whats wrong with you as she offered herself on a plate to you and you done nothing.
On the other hand she may see you as a challenge and persist until you break.
How you managed to ONLY bath is beyond me if she is attractive as you say.
2006-12-22 08:23:43 · answer #6 · answered by who is stickboy? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely
2006-12-22 07:52:00 · answer #7 · answered by frankmilano610 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It is a good thing to conserve water in our days of 'drought'. Providing the bath was cleaned afterwards, then no harm done. But one can never know the devious machinations of the female.
2006-12-22 07:55:14 · answer #8 · answered by I'm Sparticus 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
yes its so very wrong. youv made ur girlfriend look like an idiot and that girl thinks u dnt care about ur relationship with ur girlfriend, u have no respect. ur a pig. i hope ur girlfriend kicks u so hard in da nuts.
that other girl is nw laughin at ur girlfriend and prob tellin everyone all about it. uv totaly shown ur girlfriend up and i feel very very sorry for her. ur a pig, i hope u get just what u derserve. people like u r why women hate men so much
2006-12-22 08:07:12 · answer #9 · answered by kitten 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why do you have to ask if this was wrong? What would your answer be if your girlfriend did this with a male mate of yours? Get a life boy.
2006-12-22 08:46:10 · answer #10 · answered by gilly 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It was not the wrong thing to do, life is seldom full of opportunities this good. Your gf will understand and may even want to join the two of you next time. If you could post some pictures tho it would be appreciated.
2006-12-22 07:57:11 · answer #11 · answered by Genetically Modified 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋