More like 1.5 but still the same .... we are still in high school and she is the jealous controlly type of girlfriend.... and i don't really want to hurt her.
2006-12-21 23:40:40 · 15 answers · asked by zujul 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It sounds like she's still very immature when it comes to relationships. If you want to work things out with her, then you should talk to her about it. Tell her you think she's moving too fast, and you don't like her being so possessive. If she doesn't understand that (which she probably won't) then it'd be best to leave her.. It's a high school relationship, they generally don't work out in the long run. Hurting her now is hardly going to compare if you end up getting very serious and having to hurt her.
2006-12-21 23:46:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some young girls in high school, dream of getting married and maybe having children. But if she is controlling now, watch out!! It is way too soon to even think of getting married. If she is the jealous type, she thinks there will be a guarantee that you will not cheat on her, and that she will own you! Don't give her that opportunity. Maybe take a break over the holiday, and see how you feel next year! You say you don't want to hurt her? Well, you have to be true to yourself. If you are not, no one else will be. Good luck...sweetie!
2006-12-21 23:48:00 · answer #2 · answered by Angel333... 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would ask why she is even thinking of marriage if you are both still in high school, is something on her mind ie problems with her family. If so this could be why she is bring up marriage as she is running away from her problem(s), just reassure her you do really like her but you are not ready for marriage as you both are still young.
Good Luck and merry Christmas
2006-12-21 23:45:42 · answer #3 · answered by laurenj677 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it, tell her your young and you need to go to college to make a future for the both of you,and that she needs to wait for you to do this, so that you guys do not struggle in the future and you both can enjoy each other. I would tell you to run well you can because she is controlling,and controlling is not love.but if you want to be with her,thats what you want, I wish you the best,Please just be smart, you are very young still and have a full life yet to live.
2006-12-21 23:48:56 · answer #4 · answered by 1 Hot Cynthia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow. That is huge. Talk with her and help her understand that it is better to wait til you're sure that the relationship is stable (approx 5-6 years of bf/gf is good) or the marriage would be a complete waste.
2006-12-21 23:44:07 · answer #5 · answered by PZ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well dude, if you really like this girl, your going to need to talk to her parents, she needs some help or maybe her whole house hold needs help. either way, her parents prob need to know how badly she feels about living at home. this may be hard to understand at your age but, if a girl marries to get away from her parents home, she is setting herself up for a harder way to go in the near future. I know a few girls that have done this and now even the girls kids a paying for it as well.
2006-12-22 00:47:05 · answer #6 · answered by Mike 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about finishing your education first of all. Second, if a girl is talking about marriage as quick as a month, then her real goal is marriage no matter with who. I say dump and move on.
2006-12-21 23:43:31 · answer #7 · answered by Enterrador 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell her you're a little young to be thinkin about that just yet. But you love her and definitely hope that it happens. (just to kinda get her of your back about it) But tell her u need to get your life together and have a future first.
i wouldn't say this to her, but you've only been dating for 1.5 months. Next month she could hate you...marriage is a LITTLE premature i think
2006-12-21 23:43:20 · answer #8 · answered by sunkist3122 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SOunds like in the end you are going to hurt her even if you don't try...get rid of her now and find a less pyscho girl
2006-12-21 23:43:27 · answer #9 · answered by erindrozda 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you must quickly tell her that you think you are both to young to be in such a relationship and tell her you only want to be friends....and run like helle away from her, maybe go into the witness protection program so she can't hunt you down....which she probably will
2006-12-22 00:00:26 · answer #10 · answered by besthusbandever 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋