Latelly, my gf has a fetish of nailing me, in my rear end. She insists that it won't make me g*ay and i would like it, if i give it a try & it would spice our sex life more. She brings these arrguments , plus she adds that most men do like it ,but shy of doing it for not been judged as g*ay and that her gfs have done it to their hubbies & liked it. First, i'm confortable with my sexuality and don't mind trying new things and thinking about it, but i need advice from couples who did try it or know about it. Would letting my gf do me like that, ..makes me g*ay or lose my self respect ?
2006-12-21 23:27:13 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
me and my boyfriend do it, and he likes it and he's not gay at all. Guys have G spot up there, so obviously it feels good, it is normal lots of guys really do do it. She's right about the shy thing, I'm not allowed to tell anyone haha, on top of all that its fun for us = )
2006-12-21 23:42:23 · answer #1 · answered by sarah 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all, I don't think doing that with your GIRLfriend would make you "gay". Not that there's anything to be ashamed about there either..
As for the situation, if you really care for/want to stay with your girlfriend, you might as well try it. You're unsure how it'd be, so there's no reason to make her unhappy over an assumption. If you do try it and don't like it, then just tell her. I'm sure she wouldn't pursue it any further if you didn't enjoy it. If you strongly don't want to do it, then tell her. It might cause a problem in your relationship, but it's better in the long run that you don't do something that would make you uncomfortable or regretful.
2006-12-21 23:41:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try it atleast twice to find out if you like it. I was skeptical about trying it. But she insisted. After the 3rd time in 3 days, I really got into it.
Guys can actually climax without touching the penis if she's doing you right with a strapon type dildo, I know i do.
One thing i've noticed is since she's started doing this to me, I get a huge erection and climax everytime she does me.
I don't have the slightest desire to do it with another guy.
This appears to be a new trend with women wanting to do guys in the rear. The last time she did me, she asked if her girlfriend could join in and give it a try. Go for it!
2006-12-21 23:43:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
How is she going to "Nail you" in the rear end and, with what. In the first place it's a sanitary issue, then there's the safety part and the damage, that can be incurred. From fistulas and fissures and hemorrhoids, to tumors to ripping. I worked in a ER in a big city and you wouldn't believe what came through the doors, it gave us something to talk about on slow nights.
"Gay" has nothing to do with it, it's a vulgar fetish like Bonding or whips. I'd tell her to get her "jollies" somewhere else. And also, Ta! Ta!
2006-12-21 23:37:11 · answer #4 · answered by cowboydoc 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
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2016-10-15 10:35:26 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sexuality is what's between you and your significant other. It's becoming common enough to have it's onw entry in wikipedia under it's own name of pegging. My g/f wants to do it to me and I'm debating it. I have never had a desire to kiss a man, nor snuggle with one, nor have a relationship, nor find the male body attractive but I have read that men who will accept it *** more violently than more accepted forms of excitation. Life is short, if it feels good do it. But as long as it's between you and her, no it doesn't make you gay. Once you find a male you desire to have sex with, THAT'S what makes you gay.
2006-12-21 23:44:26 · answer #6 · answered by phallanx2005 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't be so much crazy for girls. Nothing depends on what they are doing as you described. Gals can understand guys much better way. So try to become a good human being, achieve a good career path and become a man of repute. There are no scarcity of girls who are beautiful and of your matching one.
2006-12-22 00:20:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it most certainly wont make you gay. now think of it this way, you know that there are things you have asked her to do, and more than likely she has. so i think if you and her have an open door of communication i would give it a try. if you don't like it then tell her so, but if you do then have fun.
2006-12-21 23:35:03 · answer #8 · answered by here to help 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm curious as to why she has this sudden preoccupation with your backside, and then following that up with statistical untruths like, "Most men like it..."
However, I like it and I'm not gay...
Also, with just a little prodding there underneath, your partner can manipulate the Prostate gland. Chances are you are going to like that one...
I wouldn't worry about it too much. Give it a shot.
2006-12-22 17:08:58 · answer #9 · answered by LongSnapper 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No that would not make you gay.. It's actually very enjoyable.. It's just another part of the body that when touched or played with feels good. I don't see anything wrong with it..
2006-12-21 23:34:51 · answer #10 · answered by LokoLobo 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋