I’m 15 years old and last year I had a two-week relationship with a boy who liked me since we were 12, while I thought we were best friends. It was me who broke up with him and then we rarely talked to each other because he was hurt. Now, a year after that, I feel that I really like him again. Though now we’re both in other relationships, and I don’t think he could ever love me again, after all I’ve done. Is it normal for me to like him again? Do you think he could ever be my boyfriend(again)? What should I do?
2006-12-21 23:26:19 · 8 answers · asked by Still breathing 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know I'm just fifteen, but think about "teen love"...
2006-12-21 23:29:39 · update #1
I forgot to mention that the boy is one of my classmates, I see him at school every day! And he's sitting at a desk right behind me!
2006-12-21 23:33:23 · update #2
Maybe you have a little jealousy now that he's moved on from you... it's normal to desire him, again. At your age, I wouldn't take relationships so seriously. It's extremely rare that you'll marry any of these people, so don't worry about losing your current boyfriend trying to get back with your old boyfriend. Tell your ex how you feel. At the very worst, you'll end up talking with each other and can become good friends again.
2006-12-21 23:29:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your question reminds me of an old african saying,"we dont know what we've got until we lose it".
You say that you are the one who broke up with him and that you both are in new relationships.But it sounds like you aint happy in your new relationship and thats why you are having feelings for him.
Why stay put in a relationship that doesnt make you happy?I believe in people being responsible for their own happiness and yes its normal for you to like him again despite what happened between the two of you.
If he really loved you maybe he could listen to what you have to say to him.Let him know how you feel.Do whatever it takes to get him back
2006-12-21 23:51:40 · answer #2 · answered by kenya 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Give him a call, write him a letter, see where he is what he's doing. Ask him out to dinner or a hamburger and talk. That usually works in a lot of cases "Talk" communication is what holds a relationship together.
2006-12-21 23:31:19 · answer #3 · answered by cowboydoc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well don't worry 15 is old enough to have a great relationship.. um i would say you guys are willing to forgive eachother there might be a slight chance. get to be buddies with him again and go from there. this might be tricky but i bet u can do it. just work
2006-12-21 23:32:27 · answer #4 · answered by Skye 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find some time during recess or lunch and try to talk to him about your situation, maybe the two of you could still be friends and take it from there.
2006-12-21 23:38:02 · answer #5 · answered by Mike M. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is a normal thin as u could come to know his good thins later on ..!!But u can just give him a sorry letter in which u have written ur feelins twards him & tell him da reason coz u left him & u came to know later on dat ur feelins twards him were totally wrong
2006-12-21 23:33:37 · answer #6 · answered by Daksh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget it. Youre fifteen and have a lifetime to find new and probably more exciting partners. Enjoy the opportunity. :)
2006-12-21 23:28:26 · answer #7 · answered by Sir Digby Chicken Bhuna 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well the best way is try to be friend with him and get close so u can no whats he really feels abt u
2006-12-21 23:37:22 · answer #8 · answered by ghost13 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋