well here's the situation. i had told one of my really close guy friends a problem that i was having and asked him how i should tell my boyfriend. well my boyfriend got jealous assuming that i was cheating on him. so he goes and starts cheating on me just to get back at me. but the thing is we've been dating for about a month and a half but he was cheating for a month. now he says that he's going to try and work things out. but lately he's been avoiding me i think he's out seein that broad. how do i handle this?
2006-12-21 22:58:47 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dump him! Good luck with the next one!
2006-12-21 23:03:19 · answer #1 · answered by anonymous 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey--get the BIG picture here--don't you think you already have the answer? This guy is not at all a man--he sounds like an immature person with no respect or integrity. Wasting time on him makes you rather silly to say the least. Go invest time with an available man who is all grown up and willing to have an emotional relationship with you, for who you are and have a really fun time together. You better shape up= there has to be some guys available out there for you. Let this guy go---he'll just do it to someone else. You cannot change him---it is too much time spent doing a needless task. You know this --so get busy and MOVE ON. Set your sights higher and find a man who has the maturity level and the interest to have a normal relationship Good luck
2006-12-22 07:09:01 · answer #2 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You certainly need to move on, but themost important thing that you need to do is to figure out why you picked such a guy. If you have been dating for 6 weeks and have already had sex, then you are picking guys who see you as a piece of meat, not a person. Good men can wait. Bad ones cannot and they make you think that if you don't give it to them, that you are the problem.
2006-12-22 07:40:02 · answer #3 · answered by adamsjrcn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well.. because this is a very short relationship, i think its best to dump him... so the whole time that you have been dating, hes been faithful like 5% of the time.... so hes been cheating like 95% of the time you have been dating, so how can you put up with that????
once a cheater always a cheater, its best you get out of the relationship NOW before it gets any worser!
2006-12-22 07:05:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You both need to stay single for a while and enjoy the company of your friends. Personally I wouldn't like to be used like that and would end the relationship immediately. A leopard never changes it's spots.
2006-12-22 07:01:54 · answer #5 · answered by jammer 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ah... dump him... like seriously dump him. You need trust in a relationship for one, and two you need someone who's going to try to work it out instead of trying to inflict pain or hurt you. When guys cheat and girls go back or vice-versa they see it as a ticket to continue cheating because they know you'll put up with it.
2006-12-22 06:59:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
dump him. you guys only dating for a month and a half, the sooner the better.
2006-12-22 07:33:58 · answer #7 · answered by Tartlettes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WTF are you doing? You know the answer. It's only been a month. You can't be that hung up on the guy? For God's sake find another boyfriend, and stop being so stupid about the situation.
2006-12-22 07:04:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
why do you have to ask this question. you've only been dating for a little while, i believe you already know the answer. why in the world would you stay with this blooming idiot.
2006-12-22 07:07:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
ur relationship sounds like hard work and u`ve not been going out long. get rid of him and find someone that appreciates u
2006-12-22 07:03:00 · answer #10 · answered by graham f 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋