Well, I see alot of women in double relationships. When I asked, they give some many reasons that are meaniless to me. So, I want to know from the general public whether it is right for a woman to have double partners, I mean "men".
2006-12-21 22:46:33 · 14 answers · asked by Dolson One 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, it is not right. I would have nothing to do with a woman like that -- I wouldn't even be her friend.
And before anyone says anything else about hypocrisy, let me tell you that men do not generally approve of that behavior in other men either. At least I am strongly opposed to it. Damn I hate it when people assume there's a double standard in that regard when there isn't really.
Have a nice day!
OK, I see I need to add one more detail. I'm talking about when the woman is trying to be a girlfriend to both of the said men -- not when she's just dating them. I think people should be able to date (not sleep with or be committed to) multiple people at once as long as they aren't committed to any of them.
2006-12-21 22:49:01 · answer #1 · answered by anonymous 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nobody here has asked for definitions of the terms of the question or what agreements the woman might have with her partners. If you mean sexual partners, certainly a woman or man can have multiple partners while being careful of STDs, pregnancy, and without being deceitful or manipulative. If two people agree to have an open relationship -- regardless of gender -- and agree to how they will conduct themselves, then who am I do say it's right or wrong? Monogamy isn't guaranteed, anyway, even when it's promised. I feel strongly that people should keep their agreements!
Research abounds that even the species we thought were monogamous are not.
We all have choices. Make them responsibly.
2006-12-21 23:02:12 · answer #2 · answered by joanmazza 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is silly, self centered and she is just taking advantage of the 2 men. She has the same self esteem problems men have when they have to resort to this. It is non committal and she would not make a good partner at this time. I doubt if she feels anything in her heart for 2 men---they are just there---and something must be wrong with them for tolerating such behavior. I am not the least bit jealous of any of this--it is appalling and embarrassing for everyone. You certainly must see that you can do much better at dating one at a time---good luck.
2006-12-21 22:53:07 · answer #3 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
monogamy was designed to assist in the rearing of children so one parent can nurture while the other forages. in our modern times, monogamous relationships make no sense any longer but are the vestiges of a conventionality that refuses to let go. yes, have two partners at the same time, have three or four! the human capacity for affection is remarkable and no longer has to be constrained to an antiquated custom!!
2006-12-21 23:03:27 · answer #4 · answered by mrjones502003 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
No. I think that it is wrong and disrespectful. I also find it gross. The woman obviously has no self respect for herself. And to keep going between 2 men? What is she thinking? Nope! Wrong all the way.
2006-12-21 22:51:22 · answer #5 · answered by looloo1122 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
That is promiscuity in practice. It is a very bad thing to do in our present generation. why not be with a guy and bear the burden of what ever. Most women do it because of greed for money and selfish desires. DON'T FORGET AIDS & STD IS RAVAGING.
2006-12-21 23:19:36 · answer #6 · answered by Mercy J 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No it is not right for anyone to have more than one partner. It happens because they are selfish and spoiled. It can only lead to heartbreak and pain. Keep it real.
2006-12-21 22:53:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
It is what feels right for you. Many people will try to push their values on you, but these are their values, not yours. If you are in an honest relationship with these men, where they both know the situation, then I see no wrong.
2006-12-21 22:53:23 · answer #8 · answered by Ms Noney 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
yes, as long as all of them know of each other and it's not a dirty cheating game. Open relationships can be good if people learn to let go and not be possessive. love doesn't care how many partners you have, nor god, if u believe in one. Anyway, it's not easy in our jealous, possessive society. good luck to all those who try to get out of the narrow box of monogamy
2006-12-21 22:53:11 · answer #9 · answered by nils s 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I will answer a question with a question. Why does it bother you so much??? Does it bother you that so many men have double partners??? Why is that??? How many men cheat on their wives???
2006-12-21 22:51:22 · answer #10 · answered by winona e 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋