Ive been goin out with a guy for two years and apparently he is my boyfriend. Few months back, i met this guy, Noel. Well, im pretty sure that he had a crush on me or either he was in love with me. I ignored him as much i could, talked to him sarcastically and i was never interested in whatever he says. He was pretty cute though =)
I guess Noel was pretty much sick and tired of my attitude and told me to stop talking to him and blocked him from msn. I did as he said. That night itself, i felt like i lost something. I didnt know what to do. Few days back i saw Noel online and i started talking to him back, he was so happy and he kept on saying he missed me and stuff...and i continue being sarcastic to him...i dont know why i just cant be nice to him =(
What do you think he had a crush on me or I had a crush on me?
2006-12-21 22:45:06 · 4 answers · asked by JeZzZ J 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sorry there's some typing error
"I had a crush on him"
2006-12-21 22:54:09 · update #1
There's nothing to laugh about
I need serious help and the sensible answer will be chosen as the best answer
thx =)
2006-12-21 23:10:07 · update #2
Well, we all love attention, it's only human. So of course it's nice to have someone who adores you around. And when that's gone you feel like you've lost something. Just be honest with yourself, you keep him around to boost your self-esteem. It's not right towards him.
So maybe you need to re-evaluate your current relationship, and ask why your boyfriend's attention isn't enough. If it really isn't working out, then give Noel a real chance, be nice to him and actually take him seriously. Try to get to know him and see if he's better for you.
On the other hand, if you and your boyfriend aren't having problems and are pretty happy, then apologize to Noel and tell him straight up that you really appreciate all of the attention, but you are in a serious relationship and cannot continue like that.
Be honest with yourself, dear. And be nice to others. Either let Noel go or give him a real shot.
Good luck.
2006-12-21 22:56:55 · answer #1 · answered by yishor 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u have a crush on ur self haha
2006-12-22 06:48:29 · answer #2 · answered by kevin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are talking ****!!! i mean you have got a bf but you have got a crush on somebody else???????????
2006-12-22 06:58:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You had the crush on yourself!!
2006-12-22 06:48:23 · answer #4 · answered by Myspace/UltraFMonline 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋