he broke my heart, he dont send any Emails & dont call more than 2 weeks now, nothing at all, i dont know what the reason is? maybe he dont want me any longer... i should knew that he found better than me...
why this heartaches happened?
2006-12-21 22:38:46 · 10 answers · asked by Hidden 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First of all, stop that thinking right there. You have plenty to offer a guy, so no, there's no way he's found anyone better than you. It's a fact. Be confident, know how good you are (don't focus just on yourself of course, but know that you have plenty to offer a guy).
Secondly, with this newly discovered confidence, call him and ask him. Don't pressure him. Ask him like it's no big deal, you're just curious. Say "hey, I just thought I'd check in on you and make sure you're doing alright. Haven't heard from you in a while. Anything new happened? Wanna talk about it?"
Who knows, maybe his grandma died, maybe he got really sick. Let him tell you, but don't pressure him.
If he totally blows you off, then he's an idiot and you don't need someone like that to bring you down. In that case let him go, you'll find somenone better.
So remember, first of all be confident in who you are, you have plenty to offer. Secondly, always give people the benefit of the doubt. Don't assume the worst, just ask him and see where that goes.
Good luck, sweety.
2006-12-21 22:47:59 · answer #1 · answered by yishor 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know why heartache happens sweetheart, it just does. Maybe it's because we aren't aware enough, or we don't want to see trouble when it's there. I do know you have to get through it. It may seem impossible, but w/ the help of friends and family you can endure.
Watch the video "november rain" by guns-n-roses, or just listen to the song. We all ahve ways of dealing w/ a breakup, axle rose pretended his girl died. It may seem odd, but it gives closure and a way to move on, good luck.
2006-12-22 06:52:02 · answer #2 · answered by NIGHTSHADE 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey it doesn't help if u don't believe in urself. u need to find ur inner strength, don't get down on urself just cause he wasn't the rt one. other wise u will get on a downward spiral of depression. look at it this way if it had to happen its better it did now then after ur married and had kids.
i'll tell u what, i normally don't do this, but i will send u some irish lucky vibes. so u can be strong and find the rt man that will be there for u to hold u and give u what it takes to for u to feel safe and secure. smile kiddo it will get better i promise. as my grandma used to say "time heels all wounds"
2006-12-22 07:00:35 · answer #3 · answered by jesse james 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you got emotionally attached to some dog, huh? happens to just about every female. you have to watch your own a@# now-a-days, you can't even trust your own husband now. do not be treated like a door mat. become a real b@#$#. hey, that would keep you from getting more heartache.
2006-12-22 06:47:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Are you being too clingy? That could be the problem. Give it some time and let the boy have his space. Don't stress and overthink it. If he doesn't want you anymore, who cares? Now, you can start dating again.
2006-12-22 06:50:56 · answer #5 · answered by PZ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The guys a jerk! your much better off without him im sure you will find a new special someone soon enough someone who may actually deserve you. hang in there
Goodluck xx
2006-12-22 07:00:17 · answer #6 · answered by .[Nae].♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's NOT you it's him, some guys are just creeps
move on & find someone better , in time you will
trust me I've been through that too & in time it all works out for the best.
2006-12-22 06:48:43 · answer #7 · answered by start 6-22-06 summer time Mom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find another guy. Like me. <3 I'm a great guy for all girls. teehee.
Contact me in Nevada,my name is Ryan.
Merry christmas!
2006-12-22 06:41:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing in that if he goes to other one then you too select other partner whts wrong in that..........
2006-12-22 06:41:06 · answer #9 · answered by Siva Prakash 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are no better than you....he is a jerk
2006-12-22 06:55:11 · answer #10 · answered by Wat Da Hell 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋