Actually, I have seen people married. I see so much joy during their wedding and even after. The man smiles while the woman smiles and every body laugh. Then what rings in my mind is, from where did the man get the woman, what was she going through before he met her; from where did the woman meet this man, what was he going through? Who has actually help their friend. On the other hand, I think they have been together for long and have struggle alot together to achieve what they have, Properties, Children, etc. It is very great. But I still think some one should say to the other, thanks darling for making me what I am. Therefore, I want to know who has the advantage to be appreciated by the partner after a happy marriage.
2006-12-21 22:19:24 · 10 answers · asked by Dolson One 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
both of them should say thank you
2006-12-21 22:23:22 · answer #1 · answered by booge 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
My previous partner and I thanked each other all the time simply for the privilege of being in each others lives. We were no less than soulmates and very appreciative of being able to find each other and recognize our connection. Therefore thanking each other can be done within an relationship as well as in a marriage.
2006-12-22 07:00:02 · answer #2 · answered by Pammy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What an interesting question. Men and women meet and mate in thousands of different ways. Sometimes they mate before they should and this leads to the heart brake that is divorce. When two people meet and mate and stay mated for many years it takes love and sacrifice for both of them. It will sometimes be the wife who should say thank you and sometimes it will be the husband. Both are at times the giver and at other times the taker and this is what makes a marriage. When you say I love you, you tell your partner thank you for being you. To Joe H. I love you and thank you for loving me.
2006-12-22 06:33:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you really think too much... husband and wife are 2 wheels of life... and it happens with trust, and trust also build the love in both... and i think no need to say thank you since they are doing together..... it also depends who should thank who? who was what before marriage, some people complete after the marriage and some are not... its diffrent person to person.... in Asian countries we are use to say "a successful man's life depends on a good woman" its very long speech...
2006-12-22 06:30:50 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Marriage is not a business adventure. It takes two for a marriage to work and I do not think either is more dominate than the other, so for one partner to say to the other what you want them to say is irrevelant.
2006-12-22 06:48:49 · answer #5 · answered by rosey 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should always make your partner feel appreciated. I don't think it's a thank you for taking me though, that makes it sound like the person has accepted property, and a spouse is not property.
2006-12-22 06:27:08 · answer #6 · answered by sparkleythings_4you 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think both should thank each other equally. You wouldn't be the same without each other, and you owe that too each other!
2006-12-22 06:37:37 · answer #7 · answered by Melissa N 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Neither. You should thank the lucky stars you found each other, period.
2006-12-22 09:19:16 · answer #8 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
both side should say it - and look at their eyes when u say this
'thank you & sorry' are as important as 'i love u'
2006-12-22 07:28:01 · answer #9 · answered by chloe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wat i think is... the woman has to thank the man for ever looking at her direction....loving her... and asking her to marry him.....
then the man thanking the woman for ever dating him and agreeing to his proposal....
2006-12-22 06:49:12 · answer #10 · answered by sniggy21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋