I an 16 yrs old guy and want to propose a girl?

Question

problem is that i dont talk to girls as i am shy.pls help me i love her very much

Answer 1

Hey Guys... he is 16... not a kid anymore..!!!

By saying.. propose .. i am sure .. he is looking for an affaire and not marriage..

16 is the right age to start if he has not started yet..

Now for advise..

Be direct
.. you dont talk to girls.. so what... who is asking to have a conversation... just convey your feelings.. and wait for response..

If it is favourable.. dont worry your shyness will go away automaticaly..

But sincerely dont waste too much time... get on with .. propose to her... or go ahead for next... dont just stay waiting for something to happen.

Answer 2

You're sixteen and you cannot get the nerve to ask without posting your question on line first.

Hon' Marriage is forever or at least it aught to be. Give yourself time before you run head long into forever.

I know right now it seems like she's the only one for you but she'll be a different person in five years let alone in 50 and so will you. If its really as great as you think it is than a couple of years won't make a difference.

Answer 3

You have a lifetime to propose to a girl. Don't rush into anything. Love waits for everything! True love at least.

If this is your first love.. chances are that it might be puppy! Don't get married just because you think you are in love with her. It could end up a mistake.

The key to talking to a girl is to remember that she is just as nervous as you are! Just be yourself! Ask her out for a date.. or just a group get together if that makes you a little more comfortable and go from there!

Answer 4

LOL.. U need to Grow up first.. At this Age u shud not say u Love the Girl.. Say Ur Just attracted to her.. That happens with Everyone of ur Age.. Just go to that Girl & Tell her ur Feelings..But just when she is Alone.. If She agrees, its Well & Good.. If not then atleast U know that u tried ur Best.. Mayb This will Give u Confidence for a Next Timer.. Heh..

Answer 5

You are much to young to propose to a girl. You need to grow and experience life before you take that big of a step.

Marriage to early usually ends in heartbreak and feeling totally lost and miserable.

Nothing wrong with having a relationship with this girl, just don't marry too soon.

Give it a few years to see if the relationship will grow into a long lasting loving one.

Answer 6

You are shy because you have no experience. Experience can only be gained through talking to lots of different people, learning about who you are and gaining confidence in yourself. I would say that unitl you are at that point (eg 20-25) to put all of those adolescent feelings on the back burner.
I fell in love at 24 and still** made a mistake choosing a partner. Now I am single parent. I am now 26 and only just learning how to make better decisions. Trust me, you have many, many years to find the one...take it slow and have fun. You dont want to rush into anything. Finish school, go to university...learn about yourself first.

Answer 7

You want to propose to a girl ,,,, And you are 16 ,,,, When do you want the wedding to take place ? And what kind of a workable answer do you hope to get from people in this forum ,,,, You'll get all kinds of answers but it's still going to have to be you that follows through with it and you say you can't do that because of a silly little thing like being shy ,,,, 16 is a little bit too young to be looking to tie yourself down to just one person ,,,, At 16 you aren't mature enough to know or understand what the word commitment means or entails espeically when the going gets a little tough ,,,, At 16 you wouldn't be able to get a job that paid enough to support you or her ,,,, At 16 you haven't got the qualifications or experience to land a decent paying job ,,,, These people that flip burgers in a fast food joint don't make enough for car insurance let alone enough for all the other things required to get along in this high dollar world of ours ,,,, At 16 you should be concerned with your education ,,,, not letting your glands do your thinking for you ,,,,At 16 you are in lust not love ,,,, you just don't realize it yet ,,,, You are trying to get the cart before the horse here ,,,,, Or you are thinking about getting a car with no means to buy the gas that makes it run ,,,,so to speak ,,,, If you can't handle your shyness then what makes you think you have what it takes to ask for her hand in marriage ? These are things you have to deal with ,,,, no one can do it for you and asking a silly question in a forum like this will get you no where and you are still stuck in the rut ,,,,, If you want to get married eventually then that's fine ,,,,, At 16 you are going to run in to or meet allot of girls you're going to want to marry ,,,,, It's normal though for a guy your age to fall in love most every time you turn around ,,,,, You just need to give it time ,,,, A good education is the basis for everything else you are ever going to have in life ,,,, Concentrate on your education and what you eventually want to do in life and bend your efforts towards that goal ,,,, It's a smart idea for a person your age to meet as broad a range of people as they can so that it will give you a better idea of who you want to settle down with when you are ready for a more serious or involved relationship ,,,, Take time to make a list of priorities and things you must do in life first and place them all in an order of importance ,,,, I think you'll find that marriage is pretty far down the list of things to do if you are honest with yourself ,,,,, like I said earlier ,,, You are going to get allot of answers to your question ,,,, You could get a million answers but it boils down to the same old thing ,,,, No one can answer this question for you or ask her to marry you ,,,, That's up to you ,,,,

Answer 8

your future will be a 19 or 20 year old guy going to court to get a divorce. Dont do it what you love and like or lust now will change as you get older you meet new people who change you outlook on life and you taste buds on females will begin to change your too young you have you whole life ahead of you if you know that you both are meant to be then dont rush it if you both stay together within the next 3 years then pop the question.

Answer 9

hi why to feel shy go ahead and talk to her or try to make her friends your friends and then ultimately they will introduce her to u and then be her best friend and 1 day when it is your day propose her but if she is shy of talking 2 guys then i am sorry i cant help it i am also in the same situation

Answer 10

hey good that u could make it to love some one ...first make sure that u r one of the best in her eyes and make sure u r taking care of her in a outstanding way i mean not by going to her in some external way which she should come to know because every girl wants their love to be perfect and one in thousands so be perfect in her eyes and dont delay in proposing .....all the best mu friend