He told me he could never be angry at me I treated him really bad and we are friends but not close. I haven't seen him in 5 years. I blocked him from my blog and IM and he still added me back and when he heard that my BF hit me he asked my other friend why did my BF do that..do you really think he is a good friend or what...I made it a mess by telling him I could never love him then I did and now I don't I was scared and confused but he always was so nice to me..I don't understand why...I was really mean to him.
2006-12-21 21:11:24 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
and that was a fine example of a true love, bravo. :)
2006-12-21 21:16:52 · answer #1 · answered by AutumnMemoirs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First relax...
Why did u treat him so bad when he was nice to you? Ask yourself, cos you can't be bad to someone for no reason, unless you are crazy.
I think he is a nice guy to care about you after what you've done (although I don't exactly know what you did...)
And he is nice to care about you after not having heard from you in 5yrs... thats quite a long time...
And if my BF ever hit me, I'd hit him back and dump him.
But if you do happen to get in touch with him again, then don't rush into a relationship with him cos you are very vulnerable at the moment, and thats not the state of mind you need to be in to make serious decisions...
And ya to be more precise, he is a good guy.
2006-12-21 21:19:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's natural for women to treat nice guys like crap. Your kind of behavior prompts men to treat women like crap, even if they are nice guys because that's what women want. Women will do anything to please a guy who treats them like crap. That's why you're with your boyfriend.
Your other friend is a stalker. Tell him to not be involved in your life. Don't say stupid sh*it like "Let's just be friends." because that will only make him want to be closer to you. Be direct. Tell him "I don't ever want to see you or hear from you again. If I do, I will get a restraining order." He is not a good friend. He does not take into account your feelings when he is doing all of these things around you. Be direct. Don't be wishy washy and give him ambiguous messages because that will only encourage him.
2006-12-21 22:04:33 · answer #3 · answered by Sax M 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As the saying goes "the nice guy always finishes last"
It's really up to you to sort what this bloke adds to your life
if anything, there is also an old adage "good friends are hard to come by" Wouldn't hurt to keep that in mind!.
2006-12-21 21:22:24 · answer #4 · answered by renclrk 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should avoid being cruel to people who genuinely like and care about you as an individual. What you can do now is try and apologize to this guy and ask for his forgiveness. Don't try to jump in a relationship with him, if you have plans to hurt him by being selfish.
2006-12-21 21:20:45 · answer #5 · answered by julia1975 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He cares for you and he is a good friend! So, stop being mean to him...he knows that you do not like him in "that way"! You need to stop putting all this pressure on yourself about him....there is none! Just be nice!!!
2006-12-21 21:16:21 · answer #6 · answered by September Sweetie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he genuienly wants to be ur friend and i think u should let him b ur friend... btw i dont like the fact dat ur bf hit u... u deserve beta... find a beta guy... Good luck
2006-12-21 21:13:45 · answer #7 · answered by becstar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must be confused. Love is confusing. I can relate. It doesn't get easier. Ever.
2006-12-21 21:13:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
give him a chance..
u can never find a person like him..
maybe u can talk to him
cheers,
kandila
2006-12-21 21:15:01 · answer #9 · answered by akoaypilipino 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're both fools. You for not realizing he's a good guy and him for putting up with your sh*t!
2006-12-21 21:14:30 · answer #10 · answered by The Pig! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋