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I just joined a dating site(http://bbwgals.tripod.com/big.htm), which is specially for plus size people. And I do meet some interesting people there. As a big woman, I am really want to know, do men really like big women?

2006-12-21 19:57:48 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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It really depends on what you mean by big. I think men in general like people who makes them feel good and are good to be around. Size is definitley a factor, but it isn't an overriding factor. But it does stop some men from taking the trouble to get to know someone who could be defined as being big. Personally I don't like the skinny catwalk waifs and also don't like people who you can see have spend a sizeable chunk of their lives and budget funding fast food companies. I prefer a woman to be happy, healthy, balanced as far as size goes and have a great personality. Too big just looks unhealthy and that puts me off.

2006-12-21 20:19:36 · answer #1 · answered by Rabble Rouser 4 · 2 0

There are more than enough men out there that like big women. Some men prefer skinny girls. But the majority of the men I know would prefer a curvier girl with a good soul than a skinny girl who is a *****. While I wouldn't go as far as to say I am a big girl I do have a lot curves ( hourglass shape with dd cups and hips the same size but with a small waist) and I have been with guys who preferred my shape over all my size 2 friends. In fact I pretty much had less trouble finding men than they did. I am between a size 10 and a 12. On the other hand the guys they dated weren't really into my shape. I had more than pne tell me how beautiful I would be if only I lost 30 pounds. I weigh 156. I think it depends on the guy and what they are into. I think as long as you stay true to yourself and are comfortable in your own skin, you will be beating them off with a stick. Personally, I think plus size women are very sexy. Good luck and have fun

2006-12-21 20:16:06 · answer #2 · answered by Michelle F 3 · 3 0

My weight fluctuates on an extreme scale.For six months I may weigh 140lbs., and wear a size 7/8, or I may be 220lbs., and in a size 16/18. I have found that the response from men is generally the same. So to answer your question, yes alot of men do like voluptuous women.

2006-12-21 21:26:47 · answer #3 · answered by ball_courtney 5 · 1 0

Do women really like big men? Perhaps in this case, size doesn't matter. If I had to choose between a big girl that was nice and a thin girl that was a b****, I'd go with the big girl.

2006-12-21 20:15:01 · answer #4 · answered by mojonah 3 · 2 0

No, not most men. Only a small number of normal guys like big women. The rest are big guys themselves. Good night!

2006-12-21 20:02:39 · answer #5 · answered by anonymous 7 · 1 1

I believe its all about preforance. I'm considered skinny but not a twig. I hear from a lot of guys that they like a girl with something to hold onto, but not too too much, because having too little makes them feel like they could snap you in half

Either way, there is a guy out there for every girl

2006-12-21 20:01:59 · answer #6 · answered by StarGazer 1 · 0 0

Well, I'm 5 feet tall and I weigh 240 pounds. I have been fat my whole life (since I was 7 years old).

Although I've never had trouble finding a boyfriend..all my boyfriends have been losers, lol. So I reckon I'm not a good candidate to be answering your question.

Good Luck, Hun.! I hope you find your perfect match and I hope he don't care what you look like.

2006-12-21 20:00:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

Yes, some men like big women. They find them attractive and sexy. I guess it is just a matter on how you project your self to others, I am small woman and I like tall, masculine man,I project my self as a tall and alluring woman.Well tall men are attracted to me.

2006-12-21 20:12:10 · answer #8 · answered by Vannili 6 · 0 0

Hello Dear...=)

Each of us is different, thankfully..

Big women, with bigger busts and butts have always been my preference..... But that is merely me.

I am not all that visual, really, so it wouldn't be a requirement, I suppose.... It's hard to snuggle up to bones, though.

"Bones is for the dogs, Meat is for the mans....."

Namaste,

--Tom

2006-12-21 20:04:13 · answer #9 · answered by glassnegman 5 · 1 1

Maybe.

I just REALLY hate it when i find out the REAL truth news from somebody else and not the person who is involved and should tell me REALLY. That is REALLY disrespectful.

2006-12-21 20:02:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

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