I really like this girl called Michelle she means alot to me i am falling in Love with her but she has a Boyfreind, she tells me she really likes me too. We made out and stuff but we didnt have sex. I think she likes me more than him because she cheated on him with me, What do you think i should do?
2006-12-21 19:32:05 · 24 answers · asked by richard r 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I really liked her before she started dating him but we just met and he asked her out before i got the chance she thought i wasnt interested in her so she said yes to the other guy
2006-12-21 19:37:30 · update #1
you may get hurt since she seems like she's playing around. why wouldn't she leave him for you if she likes you more? what's wrong with that? why don't ask her that? there are the questions you should be more concerned right?
2006-12-21 19:34:55 · answer #1 · answered by xyz 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Probabily she likes you more, I mean I did this thing (I know it's bad) and I know what I say. If she cheats on her bf this means that things are not okay between them and that she likes you much more. Also she is probbily afraid to tell her bf to break up or even worse: to tell him about her relationship with you. BUT you shouldn't be only a 2nd bf! You could find a girl but still remain with this one, see what she thinks! Probabily she would feel quite bad and she would feel how you feel now! OR you could tell her to break up with her bf if she wants to be with you.
Anyway, if you feel happy with her and you have fun and you love her, then don't just let her go! LOVE IS NOT EASY, AND NO ONE SAID THAT IT WON'T HURT, but if you have the chance to love don't miss it!
Good luck!
2006-12-21 19:40:19 · answer #2 · answered by asking_girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My friend went through the same thing not too long ago, lets call her Tammy, the boy Jake and Jake's girlfriend Eliza. Well, Tammy really feel for Jake and I mean hard, and Jake showed intrest too. But Jake said he didn't know who he loved, so he contiuned to mess around with Tammy behind Eliza's back. The voice of wisdom (ME!) told Tammy to leave him, that he was no good. But she said he told her he loved her, to this I responded "So why is he still with Eliza?"
Well after about two months of this, Jake finally broke it off with Eliza and he and Tammy became a couple. About four months later, Tammy comes to find out that he's been cheating on her with one of her friends and dumps him.
The moral of this story...if they cheat with you on someone else, they eventually gonna do it too you too. So just stay away and find someone else.
2006-12-21 19:37:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Watchout she can do the same with you in the future!!
She does no seem to know what she wants and I think in sign of respect for you and herself she should have frist sortd out her feeling with the other person.
I understand tha tyou can fall in love with someone else but before having any kind of relationship she should be honest with this boyfriend. I sure don't feel I can trust this girl at all!!!!!
I am a woman and I fel that in order to respect someone you must honest!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I would not waste my time with this girl!!!
By the way Happy Holidays !!!!!!
2006-12-21 19:36:54 · answer #4 · answered by marque1717 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not get in between Michelle and her boyfriend. The best thing to do is move on. She cheated on her bf with you, what makes you think she will not do that same. Not nice. Not moral. Move on.
2006-12-21 19:39:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you have the answer already in the question. Since you yourself knows that she has cheated her bf and now you want to take your relationship further, what is preventing her not to cheat on you in the future. So better log out of the relationship.
2006-12-21 19:35:16 · answer #6 · answered by Ram 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should tell her that you can not keep going on like this that you need to know if she want to be with you are not? If she tells you that she does want to be with you then tell her that she need to leave her bf. If she said that she can not then just tell her fine that you two are done and walk away if she really wants you than she will come after you. If she does not come after you then that means that she does not want you.
2006-12-21 19:40:08 · answer #7 · answered by Hannah W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some girls are like boys in someway...just making out for fun.
Ask her, if she would like to go on with bf. If she says yes, but you wanna stay as a friend, do. And best to care less about her in your head then . Ain't easy, but that's the best for you and her.
2006-12-21 19:37:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she cheated her BF b4 comin with u.now she will cheat u 4 someone else.try n start liking a girl 4 whom u r the first choice.i m sure there will be a gal loving u somewhere around u.go get her!!!!!ALL THE BEST.........everything will b gud afterwards.
2006-12-21 19:41:29 · answer #9 · answered by kins 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is flirting, what u gonna do when tables r turned? beat her up coz she did it again only now that u stand 2 lose? What goes round goes round but only when it hits u in the back do u realise it has come around.
Make a wise choice.
2006-12-21 19:39:36 · answer #10 · answered by Another face in the crowd 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
everyone will falling in love.. but i hope u give some time for her..
if she can cheat on his bf.. do u still want to his new bf and get cheated in future.. the most important get to know what she really want.. u or his bf..
2006-12-21 19:34:50 · answer #11 · answered by Andy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋