Serious Problem!?
k i never thought i would ever feel this way towards a girl before! but i have a problem! k i love this girl( i think)! but she goes out w/ this other guy! but everthing they do together she always invites me to go w/ them where ever they r goin! do u think shes tryin to get him to break up with her that way she can go out w/ me or just being overly nice to me! and if thats so do u think i should just give up and go on about it or hang around! I mean we bought xmas presents for each other that her b/f didn't even know she bout me until the other day but she acts like she loves him but she always wants me to hang around! so wat my question is the next time she ask me to go somewhere should i say no or go w/ the flow! i mean i got really deep feelings i thought i would never have! LOVE HURTS! thanx for any advice.. preferably from mature people! THANX
2006-12-21 19:10:56 · 6 answers · asked by Pl4yb0at!ng $up3r $t4r 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dude, she is with somebody, step away, and find your own girlfriend, because. if she dumped her boyfriend for you. she may do it to you.
2006-12-21 19:16:52 · answer #1 · answered by dmncprkr 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is probable in love with you and at the same time don't want to hurt the other guy, may be for the benefits she get from him and she also love your company don't stop moving around with her do whatever she ask you to do for her, that might even drag more of her attention to you and when her closeness to you is increasing, open up what you feel about her to her and wait for her respond she will not hurt you because she likes you, she also want you to make the first move as a man,so don't giveup if you truly felt something for her as you said. you can still interview her on her relationship by putting words into her mouth if she is open to you; that will encourage you to make move. good luck.
2006-12-21 19:37:15 · answer #2 · answered by BEKES M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have u ever discussed with her ur feelings for her ? Does she know u love her ? She may feel the same about u but is hanging on to her b/f incase u don't reciprocate her feelings - in which case she doesn't want to be alone. The flipside is : I hope she is not using u to make her b/f jealous. If she knows u feel this way about her she may be using u to build her self esteem and give her confidence with her b/f. I truly hope for ur sake that this is not the case. But honestly - u should talk it out with her.
merry christmas
2006-12-21 19:18:38 · answer #3 · answered by Tequila Sheila SA 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
uh,,,,she might be doing that to just make her boyfriend get envied, and make him get more close to her. You are probably considered as the Best Guy Friend.... Don't be dejected though, cuz, if she considered you as the best guy friend, that means you have a lot of chance of being someone's boyfriend soon! Good Luck!!!
2006-12-21 19:16:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok first offz, Im a mature person(: hehe jk well i guess u should find out what she thinks of u...sorry my advice sucks good luck=]
2006-12-21 19:17:46 · answer #5 · answered by I'm B O R E D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find another
2006-12-21 19:21:11 · answer #6 · answered by funky-ira 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋