Okay, my younger sister and I are not speaking due to her having no respect for me and always treating me like sh*t. I refuse to stand for it. Am I asking to much of my boyfriend to take my side and not be buddy buddy with her? He thinks that I am over reacting to the fact that he RE-added her to his myspace without telling me about it?
(to be fair.....i told him that he could add her in a sarcastic tone after telling him that I didnt want anyone on my friends that was on hers)
2006-12-21 18:51:30 · 10 answers · asked by Heather B 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No matter the situation, I feel that he should support me, I would him!
2006-12-21 18:58:29 · update #1
I think that I need to elaborate on this a little more for everyone to understand. They were not friends until after we started dating. I dont care if we talk. I am upset that he added her without telling me. Then acting like it wasnt a big deal. As far as us working things out, until she can treat me with respect (which she doesnt think she has to) I will not have anything to do with her. I will not let ANYONE treat me the way she does family or not
2006-12-21 19:11:13 · update #2
One of the most important part of a relationship should both of you be serious to the point of marriage is that you will always support one another in the most dificult situations. Sister's and brothers are the one's that lived with us from the time we knew them but no matter how wrong or right if your younger sister or brother treats you like sh*t not that the y deserve to be treated the same but it is a matter of principal that keeping a distance until they come to thier senses is best. Fair or not somethings need spontaneous corrections.
2006-12-21 19:07:46 · answer #1 · answered by Cyril R 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're boyfriend can make his own decisions about who he wants to hang out with and interact with. You shouldn't try to boss him around, but as he is your boyfriend, you SHOULD expect that he will respect you if you ask him for something which is not unreasonable. Not having contact with your sister, for him, is a bit unreasonable even if its clearly a choice you have made for yourself. He has no gripe with your sister, after all.
So yeah, I guess I'd say you are being unfair here. You're not going to feel good about it either way, though, so I'm not sure it matters, to be honest, since it is a rather thorny situation.
2006-12-22 02:59:02 · answer #2 · answered by G A 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This reminds me of the situation the Great President Teddy Rooseveldt was in over 100 years ago. He was caught in the deep trenches of Cuba, his cavalary surrounded on all sides, when all of a sudden, his boyfriend readded his sister to his myspace without telling him about it.
2006-12-22 03:01:23 · answer #3 · answered by Chuck F. Answers 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok first off breath. secound rather yuor sister treats yuo like **** of not she is alway's going to be your sister no it's not right for her to treat you like that but you need to talk to her about it not just act like she dosen't exsist. as for the bf he has a right to talk to whoever he wants and he's doing the right thing by not getting involved in the sister fude. You two need to solve this fude on yuor own and I would do it soon for it's Christmas and that mens Family or at least it dose to me and friends And relationships come and go but your family expecially a sister is there for life andometimes your sister can become your friend too something to think about.
2006-12-22 03:02:21 · answer #4 · answered by outlawprincess5321 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you both need to do some growing up. He is is own person so let him do what he wants. It is not up to him to take sides as it can affect the rest of his life (if you marry). A sister will forgive you long before she will forgive your b/f.
If you chose not to deal with your younger sister, that is up to you. If she chooses to continue to treat you in a way that makes you keep your distance that's up to her. You and your sister need to keep this your fight and not involve other people. I know it sucks and you want your b/f to 'support' you, but in this case it would be a lose/lose situation.
2006-12-22 02:55:49 · answer #5 · answered by Star 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
How lame is that, seriously honey its a damn website who cares if you share a few friends with your sister? I understand you feel like you hate her right now but grow up a little bit. if myspace is going to cause problems with your relationships, delete it.
and Awdio, youre whipped.
I like it. =)
2006-12-22 02:55:30 · answer #6 · answered by idbangrobertplant 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
yes u r being unfair . dont stop ur boy friend to do that if he thinks u r right then he will leave all that but till then dont do all that
2006-12-22 02:57:53 · answer #7 · answered by kashish d 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think you're overreacting a bit, but not being unfair.
2006-12-22 02:56:47 · answer #8 · answered by *Harley* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pretty soon he is going to dump you for your sister.
2006-12-22 03:23:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
thats not unfair, i do anything my gf says
2006-12-22 02:54:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋