i live in n.sw and im leaving for w.a for work, im 19 shes 18 what sohuld i do
2006-12-21 18:14:43 · 13 answers · asked by blo_joe_blo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Do what you have to do. It really doesn't matter.
I know what I just said sounds weird, but look at it this way: Either your relationship is solid and you're truly meant to be together, or it's not.
If it is solid, you have nothing to worry about.
If it's not, it won't last no matter what you do - so you might as well do what you have to do and live your life.
These things are much easier to see from outside.
2006-12-21 18:18:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you wanted to leave her & she insisted on staying together though you won't be n.sw, that means she really wants you two to be together. Maybe she really loves you that much. If you know she does & u on the other hand feel the same, stay together, if not, don't . It shows in your question that u don't "really" love her, so just break up with her & leave,don't tell her you two will still be together when inside you don't really want to be with her, you'll leave her waiting while u meet someone new w.a.
& that's just not fair ...
If you really do love her, theres no reason why you shouldn't be with her, but if you don't , just tell her breakin' up is the best thing to do.
& About the "trust" issue, did she ever cheat on you before?? If she did, don't trust her. If not, & u asked her to break up coz ur leaving & she still wanted to be with you ( a guy who will move somewhere else for his job ) that means she really wants you in her life & won't cheat on you, coz she's the one who asked to be with you. U know her charicter & know weither she's the cheating type, if she's really a sweet gurl, then u should definitly trust her.
GoodLuck.
2006-12-21 18:50:53 · answer #2 · answered by CupCake 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have she given you a reason not to trust her? Are you scared? If you are scared then move on without her. You don't need to create a stressful situation. Go do your thing and let time tell if the two of you should still be together. if she's willing to wait then let her wait. But if you don't feel the same for her, you have to be honest and let her know so she can move on with her life as you do.
Go to work, and leave your worries behind.
2006-12-21 18:23:22 · answer #3 · answered by Tired of being Mr. Nice 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep her on the nook, but realize my man, you will meet a bunch of ho's out there. They are literally EVERY WHERE. And women give it up so easily.
Don't worry about anything. Just be nice to her so you can nail her when you come back around.
2006-12-21 18:17:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes unless she has given you a reason not 2! :-) Have a safe trip!
2006-12-21 18:16:47 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Learn how to write i have no idea what you are asking.......but if you're going somewhere,long distant relationships never work out.unless you don't mind the occasional cheating on you
2006-12-21 18:18:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Live your life your own way.
2006-12-21 18:16:44 · answer #7 · answered by Dr Dee 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depending on what kind of job. also ur still young so i think what ever decision you make it'll be the right one.
2006-12-21 18:17:43 · answer #8 · answered by deallin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes,dont worry i'll take good care of her
2006-12-21 18:18:32 · answer #9 · answered by sil3ncioso 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
make sure you get to work on time.
2006-12-21 19:02:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋