Ok well I like this girl at my school and want to ask her to a dance (two months away) but I want to become friends first. But I don't know what to do from there. I mean I know her and stuff but I don't talk to her on a regular basis. How can I get some progress (become friends then ask her to the dance)?
2006-12-21 18:10:23 · 13 answers · asked by DaClint 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ok but what conversations could I start?
2006-12-21 18:19:15 · update #1
I think you should ask her to the dance first...
If she say yes, then she's probably worth keeping as a friend.
If she says no, then maybe she has someone else in mind...
Sorry if that may sound sarcastic somehow, but to tell the truth, all we guys could do is to ask the girl we like (hoping she would say yes)...
It's up to them if they would say yes or wring us by the neck...
If you really like her, ask her now before anyone does...
maybe she's worth it...
2006-12-21 18:22:12 · answer #1 · answered by noel4037 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you ever see her alone, talk to her. One on one is an easy way to get to know a girl. Just be casual and sincere. Just give her company, and then pop by more and more often as you get to know her.
If she has a friend that you know already, start talking to them and include her in the conversation so she becomes comfortable with you being around, then get to know her a little.
If you can't find her alone, or she doesn't know any of your friends, then be confident and just start talking to some to that group she's in. Just be sociable and they should be the same toward you. Then get to know her.
As far as the asking to the dance, ask her a couple or so weeks away so to be sure she is still dateless. Also, if you feel the need, be a little romantic and get some flowers or something small. Anything too big and you might weird her out a little. That's all I can say, so Best of luck.
PS The whole dance thing is a great icebreaker for a relationship, so go for it!
*******Start conversations about whatevers been happening around the school, what new movies are coming out...just anything you want to talk about really. It's easier if she's alone, then you can be more personal and make longer strides.
2006-12-22 02:24:14 · answer #2 · answered by Somebody Real 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Haven't we all gone through this? Haha. Well, if you already know her a little..or not at all, ask a friend of hers thats yours as well if she can introduce you. From then on say Hi to her in the halls, and maybe even ask if you can take her AND HER FRIEND THATS YOURS TOO to the local coffee shop, or to a movie. That wont show any signs of liking her. Once you get to know her better, you should be able to easily ask her to the dance - but once you're friends with her, try to recognize the fact that it might be better the two of you stay friends. Will it ruin your relationship if you become more than that? Ask yourself this question, because you can lose a friend that way. Happened to me once.
2006-12-22 02:16:21 · answer #3 · answered by Glam Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude just give her complements and try to get in some causual conversations with her and get to know her better and then hurry up and get the courage to ask her to the dance before someone else does!
2006-12-22 02:13:48 · answer #4 · answered by PG13 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im guessing this is a school dance. to become friends, try making conversation with her everytime you see her. u'll have 2 b brave. then ask her. if she says no then, oh well. there's plenty of fishes in the sea. good luck
2006-12-22 02:14:11 · answer #5 · answered by deallin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her out and try to talk your fave stuff with her. She will probably make friends with you. Then ask her for the dance.
2006-12-22 02:17:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well start talking to her little by little. She'll start telling you about all this stuff about herself and once u know about her like if shes got a boyfriend or whatever then u can ask her out. ( if she is not going out with anyone)
2006-12-22 02:14:49 · answer #7 · answered by mkaym11 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its this simple do you have friends that she talks to
try to talk to them and get some help into knowing the girl you are attracted with, make them introduce you to each other and then make the necessary move but in a polite or nice way a gentleman should do.
2006-12-22 02:20:15 · answer #8 · answered by rosette 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am only 13 but be nice and give her compliments but not to many that it makes you seem wierd and desperate! Then you will also keep her guessing if you like her or not.
2006-12-22 02:31:28 · answer #9 · answered by Taylor 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pretend an accident where you can talk to her. then you befriend her. and before you know it, you'll be taking her to the dance! of course, try being as boyfriend-material as you could! ü
2006-12-22 02:16:00 · answer #10 · answered by iloveCheetos 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋