i wasnt even horny or anything... we were drunk and having fun...
is that cheating? my boyfriend is very jealous and i dont think i should tell him
2006-12-21 18:02:56 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If I was the bf, and all you did was kiss for fun I'd tell you "well don't do it again, unless I get to watch." LOL. But no it's not. Not to me anyway. If you did more, it might be. But this differs guy to guy.
Based on what you told me, don't tell him. Not a big deal. If you think he'd enjoy it though, tell him. Why not.
2006-12-21 19:02:10 · answer #1 · answered by abe_perkins81 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course it's cheating. What's the matter with you people? If a guy was drunk and kissed some girl, you know, and said, "It was nothing really, no passion, we were just drunk," you'd drop him in a second. And if it were a boy he kissed, well, I don't even need to go there.
Drop the double standard, and while you're at it, drop your jealous boyfriend. If you're afraid to tell him something like that, you two are doomed. End it now while you can. Maybe explore a little before hooking up with another guy and cheating on him with another girl.
2006-12-21 18:19:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's all in how you feel about it. If there was chemistry, sparks, the passionate beginnings of a relationship, then it might, possibly, perhaps, be considered cheating. Cheating, as a whole, is a very vague and touchy subject, since some people would call talking on the phone cheating, and others could write off a week of head-board rattling sex as not-cheating. In the end, cheating is what you define it as, but generally is a form of relationship breakdown (the scurvy of love, if you will).
I see no reason, based on what you've said, to call what happened cheating. Although I don't think you should tell your boyfriend unless you feel that by telling him you will be improving your relationship (which it sounds like is not the case).
2006-12-21 18:20:19 · answer #3 · answered by Dirigeable 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Brah you cant just have all females answer this question because then you'll only have a one-sided answer. You'll hear stuff that'll get you put off for years like. A: Take her on a nice date B: Tell she looks nice C: Some other bs that hasnt worked since you were born. Take it from another shy guy who was once in your position. That bull works about 30% of the time, the other 70% they are just pitying you or using you for a free jug.You need to listen to as many of these videos as possible. Ross Jefferies my man, the number one expert at picking girls up. You wont just "get a kiss" You'll get a homerun if you know what I mean.
2016-05-23 13:46:40 · answer #4 · answered by Heather 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It isn't cheating it was a laps in reality as you were drunk but you are better of not telling him cuz it could lead to things you don't want for starters a fight with him or maybe a request to watch you kiss her again or even a request for a treesome. It also doesn't make you a lesbo. I would just forget it never happened and try to avoid a repeat of it.
Used to do the same thing in my teens and early tweenties.
2006-12-21 18:14:08 · answer #5 · answered by mlkcow2 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Contrary to the first response here, you're not a whore. You are just a girl who was drunk and had some rather innocent fun with another friend of yours. If you know your boyfriend is jealous, you may want to evaluate even being with him. Jealousy is ok to a degree, but if its prevalent way too much? That is not a good thing. My first wife was extremely jealous. I couldn't have a female friend because it meant I was sleeping with her no matter how much I tried to say and prove I wasn't. It became too much to deal with and after 7 years of marriage to her, I broke up. I got tired of all the accusations.
2006-12-21 18:09:59 · answer #6 · answered by slavetofs 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Dont listen to ETW, he's a dumb no brainer, i have kissed many of my friends, french kissed them. It's fun, silly fun. No i dont see it as cheating. Just tell him. But say like "the craziest thing happened, we were drunk then they dared us to kiss and we did" He shouldn't get too cross, if he does, just tell him it's one of your female friends and it was fun. He'll probably ask to see it next time!!!
2006-12-21 18:09:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldnt tell him. Ive done the same thing while I was drunk. I never told him && I really dont consider it cheating. Yall were drunk, having fun.. and I mean it was a girl. Maybe if it would have been a guy.. it would be different.
2006-12-21 18:07:55 · answer #8 · answered by Brandy R 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It's not cheating if passion wasn't involved and if it doesn't turn into a routine thing. Girls do that all the time when their drunk. Women are just more affectionate than men. Your bf has nothing to worry about. I would like a pic of that though.
2006-12-21 18:07:36 · answer #9 · answered by new18000 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i wouldn't tell him, the only reason people admit to cheating is to ease there own guilt, if you thimk about it what will you gain by telling him? upsetting him and yourself!
technically it is cheating but you meant no harm and just had a bit of fun, i would just forget about it now and learn not to do it again
2006-12-21 18:09:14 · answer #10 · answered by rach 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋