cheating how can I learn the truth?

Question

My boyfriend is cheating, but he took every cent of mine he could so I have no money to hire someone to investigate, are there any sites that will help me learn the truth, even though he took all of my money so that I could not hire someone?? any help appreciated

Answer 1

You can do this yourself, tho if you are already sure and broke I am not sure why you would want to hire someone.
Borrow a friend or relatives car and follow him, get a friend to do it, a brother, someone.
Sounds like you already know the truth tho and it would be best off to end it. If you have joint accounts that your paycheck goes into, establish your own and reroute the deposits to it. If the joint is supposed to be for paying bills, split the deposit betwen the 2 accounts, but you need to get your own autonomy.
Good luck, HTH

Answer 2

OK if he is cheating then he is talking to this person right?? I take it you two live together--so all the bills come to the house right?? A few things here---first ---his cell phone --there are two ways to check for numbers and times called and how long they talk--on line you can check the bill or the bill that comes to the house--on his phone check calls in and calls out--when you can intercept his messages--listen to them log them on a calender --such as what was said time and date--then delete them --keep in mind that the other woman probably doesn't know about you so after you know for sure there is another woman--find out where she works--there again by numbers logged in the bill or on the phone--go check her out--find out what she drives ,lives too if possible--all this will help you when you confront him so he will have to tell the truth--if you choose to leave him once you bust him you wont have to call the other woman--if you stay you might want to call her and tell her she was being played --But for now I would hide every penny I had not just for any reason other than to have a way to leave if you need to

Answer 3

I don't think you really need a CSI investigation if you suspect your boyfriend is cheating.. The best way is to ask his friends if you're too scared to go up to him yourself.
Also, If you feel he's taking too much money w/o giving it back. You can always go to court to get your money back.

Answer 4

If yo boyfriend axes fo money, it's probably because he needs it to buys milk fo his babies. I say gives it tooz hims. After all, he wouldn't ax fo da money if he didn't needs da money.

Secondly, you do not need to hires someone to investigates, you just need tooz sit down and ax da man wud up? Tells him dat you be feelin downs bout da life you be leadin wit dis mo fo and dat you be wantin to chill at da crib wit him and wutz sup?

If you be axing doze kwestchuns, you be gettin de answers you be needin.

Answer 5

you dont need a site just use your brain and dont let your heart do the thinking. this guy did you wrong once and he will do it again ,so move on and be confident about yourself and you will succede

Answer 6

if you have to ask this question then you already know the answer. love is blinding but you need to see the light.. cheating is unecceptable

Answer 7

are you kidding me.. leave his cheatin a.ss.. why would you even want him after that, I guess it goes to show that you have no respect what so ever for yourself and any cheating he does from this point forward you shouldn't cry about because your still with him :) :) :)

Answer 8

Go on Maury

Answer 9

Why bother?....him taking your money so you could not get prove shows you he's guilty already...just dump him.....

Answer 10

first;y, stop giving him ur money.. then if u start sensing that something is not right with ur relationship then u should ask him..