he's turning into a JERK
and alwayz has some "lame excuse" as 4 y we cant c each other
and i try to stop calling him, BUT i cant help it..i wanna c him soo bad, its only been 2 days, but still, we used to c each other 24/7
my question is, how do i stay strong, how do i keep myself from calling him
2006-12-21 17:48:50 · 12 answers · asked by ♥ms.peREz?♥ 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he probably just needs more alone time and most men will act like jerks instead of being honest. go shopping hang out with friends if u act to needy u might scare him away for good
2006-12-21 17:53:29 · answer #1 · answered by miss_kiki4 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him how you feel and what the consequences will be if he keeps it up.
If he doesn't change, I think you will get less and less "needy" for him, and you will find yourself able to move on. There are more guys you could date than you will ever get a chance to, might as well accept that trying a few out is the best way to find what you are looking for.
Don't settle until you know what the market has to offer! =)
2006-12-22 01:56:16 · answer #2 · answered by jamisojo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel...and this is the same sad song that many women sing. Guys tend to change when they get tired of the relationship. I know its hard but it's all in your mind. People have to endure way more difficult things to get over...so it's no question that you can get over that. I would recommend hanging out with other people so you wont dwell on the thought of being with him so much. Go out and meet new girl and guy friends...I'm sure your bf has already beat you to it.
2006-12-22 01:55:48 · answer #3 · answered by angie20k 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The more you push the more he will pull away... Just do something else with your time.. like chat on the computer or watch a movie, go shopping things like that... And tell yourself if you wanna keep him let him come to you for a change.. And if its ment to work out it will.. if not then you know it was because he wanted to break up...
2006-12-22 01:55:28 · answer #4 · answered by sweetchic 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
my b/f is the exact same way. at first, he wouldnt call me for 2 days. and now his cell & house phone is shut off, so I havnt seen of talked to him since december 6. the bad thing is we live right
next to eachother. seriously, i can see his bedroom window from my bedroom window., funny eh?
my advice = just get over him. ive been hanging out with REAL guys and im loving it. im not cheating on him, just gettin to see what else is out there.... maybe you should do the same
good luck & happy holidays =]
2006-12-22 01:56:23 · answer #5 · answered by chelsღ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My friends was crazy about her b/f and he started acting the same way. it turned out he was cheatin on her and she broke up with him. she is now with a new guy who treats her the way she is ment to be treated and the other guy now wants her back really bad. Although it hurt her to break up with him she is much happier now.So Trust me your better off without him as much as it may hurt you.
Goodluck xx
2006-12-22 01:54:15 · answer #6 · answered by .[Nae].♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude u need a serious hobby other than ur boyfriend. u need to give some space before u really push him away and he wont answer ur phone calls at all. find something else to do.
2006-12-22 01:53:02 · answer #7 · answered by superstar 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you can choose to turn away from your problem but it will only get worse. do not run away from it, face it and talk to him. that is how you end everything, by giving it an enclosure.
2006-12-22 01:51:32 · answer #8 · answered by evi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you think he is turning into a JERK, then it time to talk to him seriously and tell him what you think and them end the relationship by telling him in his face. THATS IT!
2006-12-22 01:54:17 · answer #9 · answered by livinhapi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont... u should call him... u should call him and dump him... cause he doesnt deserve ur love and there is some1 out there who will love u 100 times beta... Good luck =)
2006-12-22 01:55:18 · answer #10 · answered by becstar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋