This has been disturbing me for a while: the reason why good girls fall for bad guys. Please elaborate! And guys don't get mad at me; I hope you know yourself: either good or devil!
2006-12-21 17:47:17 · 17 answers · asked by chrizere 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Immaturity. My husband used to wonder the same thing. Now these women are divorced with kids, dealing with bad men, living their little dramas, and wishing they'd dated the "good guy." They didn't want him when he was a nice guy, but now they're desperate to find a good man, because reality hit hard.
2006-12-21 17:52:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't speak for all of them, but just for myself. I don't even know if you would consider this a bad boy image or not. When I met my husband I was in the Air Force and I met him the first day that I arrived there. He was very good looking and seemed like a nice guy. When I spoke to others about how I had an interest in him, everyone told me to stay away....far away from him. They said that he can't stand being with just one woman and that he had many women on the base and in two different states as well. He always has to go against the rules no matter what the rules are. Well of course that interested me because I wanted to see if he would change for me. Fortunately he did change for me and we have been married almost 12 years now. I like the challenge of trying to get him to change for me. I knew that once he changed, he would love me more for wanting to change for me. It may sound crazy....but that is the way that I feel about it.
2006-12-21 17:55:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Because bad boys equal excitment and fun! They are unpredictable and have a certain edge to them. Not all girls like bad boys, but those who do love adventure. A bad boy will keep you on your toes and keep you guessing. Bad boys are risque and have an edgy look about them. In the end, many girls get tierd of bad boys because they often turn out to be flakes, mischeivious and at times, cheat. This is not always true! In my opinion, many girl end up with good boys in the end or they tame bad boys.
2006-12-21 18:11:49 · answer #3 · answered by staci 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I used to at the same time as i became a youthful youngster, now i have matured and grown up, and bypass for adult men who're also grown up & mature; which does not contain undesirable boys. in the journey that they are respectful, regardless of the indisputable fact that, and performance somewhat a nasty aspect to them then it truly is fantastic and typically desirable, yet in the journey that they haven't any respect, cheat and/or take drugs/smoke then I even haven't any interest and would truly not waste my time.
2016-10-16 21:08:21 · answer #4 · answered by hafner 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i thinks generally happens because people in general has a curiosity thats different from what they are used to so they want to experience it for themselves. as far as the bad boys some girls think that is sexy and thinks that they are a real man if they act like a bad boy. also like they say the grass is always greener on the other side.
2006-12-21 17:50:19 · answer #5 · answered by superstar 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its not always like that maybe thats the person they fell in love with you can never tell
i am a girl but i cannot tell if the guy i would love would be good or bad the basis in that is when you fall in love you accept what are his attitude or qualities are
2006-12-21 19:10:17 · answer #6 · answered by rosette 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The question should be: Why do STUPID girls fall for bad boys?
2006-12-21 17:52:16 · answer #7 · answered by Jamie R 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well because a good girl is only good because she has been sheltered all her life... when she finally is free she wants adventure and thats what bad boys offer... eventually she will hav had enough adventure and she will want stability and she will come bak to the good guys... its all about adventure
2006-12-21 17:49:31 · answer #8 · answered by becstar 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Girls come around after getting treated like CRAP enough times...... I think it's a gradual process.
2006-12-21 17:49:40 · answer #9 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is a turn on to be insulted. Listen to Tom Leykis. He'll tell ya. www.blowmeuptom.com
2006-12-21 17:49:25 · answer #10 · answered by united_nations_pilot 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋