What Kind of Parrenting Picks your Nerves?

Question

That kind where the People are like We better Drink this milk Before midnight or itll be Expired and he Drinks it a 12:01 AM Then Gets worried he has Food poisning then the next day he breaks a CD in the Microwave the Parents send them to his room with his Ps3 And computer And Cable Internet and the 40 Inch LCD TV And then they Wonder why there kids are Bullies
You know what im saying? I make my Children Stand up For an hour Looking at the Floor with me Watching And i havent had to do that in a long time to me grades are a diffrent Story Then I take away their TV and their Computer Until Next Week when they Get their new Report Cards! And if thats Bad It Stays Like that Plus no one can come over! And my Children Get A+'s In school!

Then How come my child, Willingly Comes and Hugs Me and says i love you and when i leave to go to the Office they sit Out and say Good buy i love you over and over Again?

Listen I RARLY Have to Make them Stand up For an Hour, I also don't like to Atleast I don't Beat my Child With a Four Inch Leather Belt Like the Delinquint Next Door

I agree You Should'nt Call Your Kids Name Its just wrong and Degradding and Build's up actual Hate
My Mom did that to me i Hated it SOOOOOOOOOOO Much

Answer 1

The type of parenting which I hate is the one that the parent is extremely judgemental and loves to criticise other parents about their parenting to make themselves feel better about how they parent. Sounds like you have a big head.

Answer 2

I hate it when I see families who live in households that make fun of each other. My husband's parents call their step-son a very long list of names:

Retard.
Brat.
Cry Baby.
Spoiled.
Dumbass.
Stupid.

It's heartbreaking. All this little boy wants to do is be heard and talked to but the parents are just so involved in their own lives that they just call names. They are "joking" around but really, what is the point?

Parents who actually allow TVs, gaming systems, and computers in kid's rooms. It's not something that is needed. I prefer to spend quality time with my kids rather then sending them into their rooms--good behavior or not--to play.

Parents who don't acknowledge their kids or ignore them.

Parents who don't discipline from the beginning or set a bad example and then wonder what went wrong.

Parents who blame other people on things they could have solved.

Parents who play the victim in every situation concerning their kids.

Of course these are just things that bother me about parents. Every parent does things differently and has their reasons BUT it just bothers me to no end.

Answer 3

The kind of parent who baby's there kid like nobodies business i use to babysit for a 3 yr old girl and her mom and dad insist that she still goes to bed with a bottle and where diapers cuz they would rather have her be ready to use the "big girls potty" when she is ready!! Oh not only that they listened to whatever the little girl wanted if they didn't she would start to cry!

Answer 4

Child Abuse where they Bring out the 4 Inch Leather belt lol

Answer 5

The kind of parent I hate....is my own mother...she will preach at other people on how to raise their kids....and she didn't even really raise my older sister and I....Our grandmother did..My mom was always out with this guy or that guy....
Right now my mother and I are not on speaking terms...and she is not allowed around my kids...because, her and the use of drugs is in question...and she will lose her cool with my son and scream at him and throw hm around pretty much...and he is only 5...sure he's a little hyper and has problems listening...but she has no right treating someone elses child like that...even if it is my son..(her grandson)...ya...so that's the kind of parents I hate...

Answer 6

I don't like parenting where the parents make their kids feel bad about what they do or who they are. My aunties kid is 16 and growing so fast that he stumbles and almost wrecks things. Instead of laughing and saying' you grew an extra inch today' he mummbles apologies and looks really guilt, while his mother gasps and grabs to catch the things he almost breaks. U feel so bad for him, he apologizes and feels like something is wrong with him when there isn't.
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Also religious parents that raise their kids to judge

Answer 7

The kind of parenting that bothers me is the parents who didn't make much of themselves and therefore don't require anything of their kids. Or the parents who think that just because their kids are out of control, that they as parents can't do anything to fix the situation.

Answer 8

If you make your kids stand up and look at the floor that will only make them hate you. You have to make them realize the value their education and how it will help them in life. If grades are important to you, spend time with your kids and talk to them. Personally, I believe that life skills and common sense are important. I don't agree with sending a kid to their room with a PS3 but making them stare at the floor sounds almost abusive.

Answer 9

I get really mad when I see weak parents that choose to demean their children rather than properly disipline them. I saw a lady call her maybe 3 year old son a stupid fat idiot at the mall, I jumped in and said something, poor kid I just wanted to take him home with me

Answer 10

I understand where your coming from but seriously maybe you should have your children proof read your writing before you send it as the grammar and spelling is real bad. Your message is clear but reading such poor grammar is annoying.