I think I'm in love with a celebrity. FIRST off, I know it's not lust. But you see, he's 16 years older than me. I definetly don't like him JUST because of his looks. And I know what he is outside of his famous life. And I love him more like that. I don't know what to do,now.I'm never going to have him.I spend my nights crying myself to sleep.Before you start being rude,please read all of this.Well,I'm 13 years old.But I REALLY DO think it's true love.I don't want to move on.Please someone give me advice! Nobody is helping!
2006-12-21 17:10:22 · 33 answers · asked by Alicia. 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He's John Cena.
He's a wrestler.
He has never cheated on a girl in his life, he has never been married. He's had one serious relationship for 6 years and they were engaged but it didn't work out.
2006-12-21 17:22:45 · update #1
I've tried dating other guys.But that makes it even worse.Because the whole time that were going out,I keep thinking about John and I feel sick to my stomach and I eventually break up with them.After a week or two.
2006-12-21 17:27:35 · update #2
I used to feel that way about Scott Baio when I was 13. I moved on to lead a happy life when he never replied to my invitation to share a normal dinner with me and my parents. ( I was certain he was tired of all the other fans and needed someone like me, who really loved him for him as a person.)
2006-12-21 17:20:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry - it will pass. I felt the same way, when I was your age and over time the feelings went away because I finally realized there was no way I'd ever meet the guy. Just focus on being a crazy teenager, getting a good education, go onto college, secure a great job and then look for the 'love of your life'. At that time Mr. Right will come along and you'll both be happy for the rest of your life.
2006-12-21 17:15:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am not going to be mean here---You have a crush ---its what is normal---Be real if he is 16 years older what can possibly happen now?? Why are you beating yourself up over this?? You are not going to move on until you realize that this is all just a ---how do I put this---fantasy--and even that's not right--but then again maybe it is--Lets take for instance that you actually walked up to him and told him you were IN LOVE with him--What do you think he would say or do?? Do you think for one min. he is going to sweep you off your feet and run away with you?? He is 26 years old 26 !!!! He sees you as a girl---you are not even in his league of peers---he probably owns shirts as old as you (now I'm not trying to be mean just real) So stop crying yourself to sleep over what cant be---for now --if you still feel in love with him when you turn 18 then who knows--he will ONLY BE 31--And you want to be with someone that age?? I am sorry you are having a heart torn problem I really am--but I think you need to just be real--
2006-12-21 17:23:40 · answer #3 · answered by skizzle-d-wizzle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
...Hoo boy, you got it bad... I'm thinking the only remedy is time... because all I can say? This is an extreme case of unrequited love you got going on here. I mean... you cry yourself to sleep? Over a celebrity who doesn't know you exist? That's sad. And no way to spend your teenage years!! (Or not for very long, anyway.) You need... to find some enjoyment within your own life. Have some fun!! Hang out with friends!! Go fall in love with someone who'll love you back!! Get your mind off of this dude so you don't cry yourself to sleep.
2006-12-21 17:24:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alicia..............I was in love like this when I was 12 and he was 24. When he got married I thought I'd die. I walked around like a zombie wishing for death. He didn't even know. I know how u feel and especially when your heart is true, its very difficult.
But.......... in a relationship, both parties got to have feelings not just one and there must be compatibility. His world and your world are different. You'll never fit into his and he'll never be comfortable in yours. Love him from a distance sweety, your guy will soon come along and you would be able to actually spend time with him and enjoy his company. Take care.
2006-12-21 17:32:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
to be truly straightforward i imagine that adjustments with the mood that society is in. lets love one man or woman in the destiny yet then the subsequent suddenly we "listen" that they have got performed some thing that's condisdered with the help of an endless majority of human beings as incorrect or undesirable and suddenly they are between the most hated human beings available. if i have been to take a shot interior the darkish i'd say someone like julia roberts or george clooney at present. they have been round perpetually and take care of to position low at the same time as nonetheless performing some extremely good things. yet i dunno.
2016-12-01 01:59:09 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you even know him personally? and since you are 16 years younger then him , there is really no advice to give you even if you did know him , you are way to young to be with him , now if you were legal ( and if you know him) i'd say go on girl , tell him how you feel but you are not , and where i'm from if anybody messes with a person under 18 it's called rape (especially if that person is 16 years younger) sorry ma but except this advice find someone your age.
2006-12-21 17:18:09 · answer #7 · answered by twiggy_vienna_love 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well sweetie thats a tough one... every1 loves some celebrity at one time or another... mine was Jesse McCartney =) i was convinced that i was going to marry him... now doesnt that sound silly... lol but u will realise as u get older that even if u truly do love whoever ur celebrity is chances are that even if you were to get together with him it wouldnt b worth it because a majority of celebritys cheat and get divorces and truely arnt all that nice of ppl... i know that it doesnt seem like that now and i know that u think your in love but there is one thing i promise you... there is some1 special out there for you... i dont know where and i dont know who but i know that all you hav to do is be the teenager you are and dont try and be sum1 that your not... someday someone special will enter your life, just give it time and for now... mayb find some1 that u go 2 skl with and start hanging out with him... take ur mind of ur celebrity... i hope that helps sweetie =) Good luck
2006-12-21 17:17:45 · answer #8 · answered by becstar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it is true love, no doubt...God put that person here in order to show you that there is someone out there that is good for you. But, since that man/woman is 16 years older, and you think that ya'll won't get together ever...then you are just eliminating yourself. Have hope, and try searching for that man that is just like him in the ways that you like that celeb, and just cherish him. God Bless & Good Luck...hopefully you'll find the man of your dreams one day...but also, it could be a fad. Hopefully you can get over it, and just search for someone good in life.
2006-12-21 17:18:50 · answer #9 · answered by Tar Heel 4 Life 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wake up and live in the real world, who ever the celebrity is believe me they would not want a 13 year old... You need to go out and spend more time with your friends who are your age. If this continues to bother you and makes you cry at night then you need to have your parent's take you to see a doctor.
2006-12-21 17:13:39 · answer #10 · answered by Mimi 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋