well, he have a 15 years of friendship with his best friend who is a girl ...but unfortunatley she really really like him alot... When my husband and me start to going out she became jealous and always hogging him.. I always hate this girl because she even battle with me in front of my husband [ she ask him to buy her a dozen of roses right in front of me, always be nice when he around but when he is not, she a mean little bi@tch, ask him if he could wait for her to marry first then he can get marry, ... So my husband decide to end his friendship with this girl because he always get stuck in between and we always end up in fights... But I feel terrible about it.. Should I let him do it or should I say no and bte my tongue and ignore tha boi@tch??
2006-12-21 17:08:21 · 10 answers · asked by funkysha916 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
u should always be the priority. so let the ***** go, good riddance. and what is that friendship between a man and a woman? she will always be your competitor.
and by the way , there was someone here who said u should let it go, cos if u interfere he will leave u or u should be scared that he will meet with her in secret and stuff like that - if a man does that to u - leaves u for his "friend" what kind of man is it on the first place? i say good riddance from him too. so make yourself a priority always, if a man leaves u cos of it - he wasn't meant to be with u on the first place
2006-12-21 17:22:44 · answer #1 · answered by jacky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like your husband is a good man. Let your husband end this friendship, he is trying to keep down the fights. It should have been ended nearly 15 yrs ago and this would not have been happening. You being the wife could have also put your foot up her a** a long time ago. No other woman is going to make demands on my husband without the trip to the er. Why should you feel terrible about it, I am sure you have bitched about it for 15 yrs, now that he is doing it, you are asking if your should bite your tongue . Make up your mind.
2006-12-21 17:19:07 · answer #2 · answered by m c 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have no reason to feel terrible. She's interfering with your relationship with your husband and he's absolutely right to get her out of your lives. Instead of feeling bad you should feel good that he's taking the step of eliminating this negative element from your relationship.
2006-12-21 17:25:08 · answer #3 · answered by heart o' gold 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get married already. Dont trip off her or you will always be trippin. Wondering whats gonna happen if they meet up somewhere for some strange reason while you are not there.
LET IT BE.
2006-12-21 17:14:49 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
since it is ur husband who made the decision to end this friendship, you don't have to feel bad about it at all.
and I do think ur husband has thought it over several times, and he must think 'cause he really loves you, he should give up something else to win u to closely stay with him.
2006-12-21 17:16:01 · answer #5 · answered by Rachel Zhang 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That relationship is crowded. I don't know what he has been doing with her atound it's not healthy at all. Tell him in no uncertain terms that girl is got to go. Marriage is between one amn and one woman beyond that it's crowded.
2006-12-21 17:11:25 · answer #6 · answered by Trinity 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The more you guys fight, the worse it will become. I say you should let her go, and if she does but in again, just ignore her.
2006-12-21 17:17:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her go. Otherwise you will continue to have problems.
2006-12-21 17:11:15 · answer #8 · answered by rams 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
two's company, three's a crowd. buh-bye
2006-12-21 17:17:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u step in 80 percent of the time he'll leave..................U. u decide
2006-12-21 17:15:31 · answer #10 · answered by jeffrey m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋