She's kinda cute, but she like at least 30 pounds too heavy.
I flirt with her when I see her, but she's kinda tubby.
Should I?
2006-12-21 17:08:12 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Words cannot cover how much hatred i feel for guys like you.
It's despicable the fact that guys like you are too scared to ask out a girl that you think is too fat. 30 pounds is NOTHING!!!! Infact you don't deserve to even breath the same air as her. You make me sick!
2006-12-21 17:20:12 · answer #1 · answered by mandy_baby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The thing is someones weight or size should not be the only grounds in which you determine if you like someone. I assume when you say `ask this fat girl out` you mean maybe start an ongoing relationship.. tread the water... check it out... try it on for size.
You need to ask yourself... are you one attracted to her?
Do you think you can have a relationship that`s meaningful and rewarding?
Do you think you can refer to her with something a little more pleasent than fat chick... coz I doubt it will last if you continue saying things like that.
2006-12-21 17:17:06 · answer #2 · answered by meanie :( 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Figure out first why it matters to you that she's heavy. It obviously does matter on some level, because you're asking the question. I'm just not sure what level that is.
If you're not attracted to overweight women, then don't waste her time or yours. She deserves someone who likes her for who she is, not someone who's "willing to give it a try" to see what he can get or someone who secretly disdains her because of her weight or constantly wishes she would lose weight, and you'll be better off with someone you're really attracted to. Please don't think you're doing her any favors by "giving her a shot". There are plenty of guys out there who'll probably find her hot, without reservation. Stay out of their way and let them find her.
If you aren't sure because you are worried about what others will think when they see you with her, that's another reason to leave her alone. Grow some balls, if that's the case, and then date who you want regardless of who thinks what.
I guess overall my answer is, leave her alone. She deserves better.
2006-12-21 17:15:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First dont listen to the people that called you shallow for calling her a fat girl. What else are you gonna call her big boned?? have to call her something to describe her size. Id take her out on a date but not to a resturant type setting reason being is if shes one of those weight concious fat chicks she probably wont like to eat infront of you as hard as that might be to believe. I've had a few that were a little embarass'd to infront of me. if her weight doesnt bother you then go for it 30 pounds to heavy aint nothing. Do what ive done whenever i've dated a thick chick and we got serious id take her to the gym i go to and we'd work out together. alot of women like that. It also allows you to see if shes one of those thick chicks that wants to lose weight and will work for it or not. bottom line go for it.
2006-12-21 17:31:49 · answer #4 · answered by Casanova 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you want to ask her out, I'd definitely word the question a little differently. Also, make sure you're asking her out because you like her, not because you think she won't say no or something, because women often pick up on that sort of thing and then she'll say "no" and you'll be the one who's a big, fat, idiot.
2006-12-21 17:50:29 · answer #5 · answered by man_from_conniemara 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm conflicted. I know nothing about you except for the wording of your question and it seems like you have some really negative feelings toward people that are overweight. If you get past that you should definately ask her out, but only if you can be good to her. If you can't get past it, please just leave this girl alone. She deserves someone who like her for who she is.
If you do decide to ask her out, please refrain from using the words "fat" and "tubby" around her. I'm sure that wouldn't go over well.
2006-12-21 17:18:46 · answer #6 · answered by Miss Randi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you even ask this question, I think that you would have already made up your mind to ask her out. Why do you need a second opinion on this? She might be a bit tubby, but if you had no interest whatsoever in her, you would not even be asking. Go ahead, there is nothing wrong with dating
2006-12-21 17:13:27 · answer #7 · answered by glastnot 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're already obviously interested, so you want to. So ask her out. She must have grabbed your attention somehow. But, I'll tell you one thing: treat her with respect. And for the the love of all that is good and true--STOP CALLING HER FAT AND TUBBY!!!! Once you get rid of that attitude you'll have a better chance at getting whatever it is you're after. Hopefully your after something that is not going to break this girl's heart.
2006-12-21 17:22:34 · answer #8 · answered by queensassey 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Looks like you kinda like this girl even if she maybe a little heavier, but that doesn't matter. I think you should ask her out but thats ur choice but dont base it on how much she weighs looks like there is some attraction neway either physically or on another level.
2006-12-21 17:18:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
how about yes because you already like her and then help her lose some weight. Be a man.. I WONDER HOW YOU WILL FEEL WHEN SHE FINDS OUT YOU HAVE A SMALL D**K. I THINK THATS THE ONLY REASON WHY YOU ARE THINKING OF HER WEIGHT BECAUSE YOUR D**K IS NOT LONG ENOUGH TO GET PAST HER FAT>>>
2006-12-21 19:09:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋