He's been flirting with me. I get signs that he's interested. On 2 occassions asked me if I live alone. One time took a picture of me on his cell phone. I was waiting for his next move - to ask me out didn't happen. He's Aries - has a fear of rejection according to astrology sites. True or not, I don't know. I'm attracted to him, too! Finally, I called him on a Thursday and left a message. He didn't return my phone call. Saw him at work Sunday he said, " let's do it after Christmas", that was 3 days after the call. He said he was busy that's why he didn't call. I thought he was blowing me off, or he didn't get my message because of bad reception due to a wind storm. He asked where I want to eat, I said, I don't know! I was caught off guard cause I thought he was not interested. I never thought of a place. He suggested a place and we both agreed. Then, next day left a note - changed the restaurant without getting my opinion! I guess he wants to be in control. Is this a "date"?
2006-12-21 16:57:18 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes, it's a date.
OK, this guy sounds like he's a little flaky or he's hiding something. Be careful.
Good for you, asking him out. If he turns out to be a dud, don't let that throw you off. This world needs mor women who aren't afraid to make that first move.
Stout heart! Hope you have a great time.
2006-12-21 17:03:10 · answer #1 · answered by lmcbuilder 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its a date.
2006-12-22 01:00:52 · answer #2 · answered by starone 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds as though he thinks it is. The question is ,do you? Once you finally come to an agreement on where to have dinner,you should discuss how you both feel about the evening. It won't hurt to ask his opinion.Once you know that answer,the rest of the evening can go a lot smoother, Being honest with your feelings is important to any relationship.
2006-12-22 01:02:52 · answer #3 · answered by mopjky 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is a date. And I wouldn't make a big deal about him changing the restaurant. Maybe he found an even better place to take you to. So don't freak and just have a good time.
2006-12-22 01:00:26 · answer #4 · answered by yleemoreno 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nope, hes either sneaking around on some chick or he's not into you like that.
Im guessing that since you are going after him so agressively that he is a jerk or an azzhole.
Girls dont agressively go after good men.
You will get what you deserve, and i bet there is some real good guy who likes you that you crap on.
2006-12-22 00:59:17 · answer #5 · answered by Its me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok you have done your home work, now you are afraid that you dated him before he did? don't worry, whether it's a date or just a dinner or lunch those are simply symantics and do not play major roles in relationships. Love is the key, then trust, then communication. You got it, you got him, and he got you.
Good luck and merry christmas
2006-12-22 01:01:52 · answer #6 · answered by Trinity 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, that's a date, and he's totally interested.
Good Luck! oh..and Just beyourself.
Guys like that.
2006-12-22 00:59:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I would avoid this guy, for these reasons:
1) He's a game player.
2) Don't date co-workers. Trust me.
3) He's a game player. He is baiting you. I recognize it. Please don't waste your time or your heart on this one.
2006-12-22 01:01:08 · answer #8 · answered by Ade 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is
2006-12-22 01:04:54 · answer #9 · answered by shallah 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NNNNOOOOOOOOOOO!!!
hes feeling u out to see if he can control u... leave the bum alone.. just ask dear abby
2006-12-22 01:03:24 · answer #10 · answered by jeffrey m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋