My bf abused me in june coz he saw me dancing with another guy. He broke up n told me im a cheap gurl along with abuses . then he stopped contacting me. But after a month he started contacting through text mesgs.Again not very pleasant mesgs. but now on 14th nov he again abused me as he kept asking me through text mesgs if i had gone on a date with another guy. But i kept silent and he again abused me through mesgs tht im a prosti**te. He told me he wants to slap me n abuse me .When 2 mesgs were sent by chance to him by me,He abused me n mesgd tht if another mesg i send...he will break my hands n abused me.I replied tht im very much scared of him n to keep away from me .He considers me to be a very cheap gurl whereas i was with my parents when he thought me to be dating with some guy as his friends told him so.He only trusts his friends n they keep telling him im bad.NOW HE SENT 2 MESGS ON 2DEC.I MESG-HOW'S UR BF?2-I MAY B SILENT BT DEEP IN MY HEART I MISS U.NOW HE SENT 3 MESGS ON MY
2006-12-21 16:52:15 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
MY BIRTHDAY, A VERY FORMAL MESG "HAPPY BIRHTDAY". THEN I CALLED HIM TO THANK HIM N HE HAD A FORMAL TALK N I HEARD HIS FRIENZ CALLING HIM N HE SAID E WILL TALK LATER. THEN AT 12AM AT NITE HE AGAIN MESGD HAPPY BDE. NEXT DAY I MESGD AROUND 2 NOON"THANX FOR UR WISHES N HAV A NICE DAY". BUT THE MESG WASNT SENT SO I SENT IT AGAIN. HE MESGD THT WAT IS THE NEED TO SEND SAME MESG AGAIN. I MESGD THT HTERE IS SOME PROB IN MY CELL N IM SORRY N CATCH U LATER. HE MESGD THT-"NO NO NO. THERE'S NO NEED TO CATCH ME AGAIN". I WANA KNOW Y HE MESGD ME THEN??? N WHY HE BECAME SO RUDE N SENT ME SUCH A MESG??? WILL HE EVER CONTACT ME AGAIN COZ I REALLY LOVE HIM . IM CRYING SINCE THT DAY. PLZZZ TELL ME WILL HE EVER CONTACT ME AGAIN?? WHAT SHOULD I DO???
2006-12-21 16:52:42 · update #1
Nothing better than freedom. You are responsible for your own kind of way of life.
You shall demand your soul to tell you what you really want
Guess your soul tells you that you prefer LIFE WITH FREEDOM... liberty!!!!!!!
Liberate yourself .
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2006-12-21 17:15:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 10⤊ 0⤋
Dear, why you are crying and why you are unnecessary waisting the most precious thing i.e. your tears, for a very common thing. In friendship this kind of situation comes now and than. However, now you have not to worry and be chear. You have to make a mind and ignore his messages and his calls. If any body abuses you he is/was never your friend because these are very cheap things. He has not as much large heart as yours is. I always believe in good friends who never suggest unhealthy things which hurt you and your family. My all friends know I a very kind heart and check/confirm a friend with his activities. If he indulge in bad activities than firstly I suggest to leave these activities before join me. I always show them right direction. So I suggest you to forget that guy who broke your heart and hurt you mentally. Please read with very carefully "If you love someone then let him free, if he comes back it yours or not he never was".
2006-12-21 17:14:34 · answer #2 · answered by inder r 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey listen... no need to cry... do you really cry and get hurt for a person who has abused you so much... You dont have self respect or what.... ?????
have you lost it totally.... that guy is a bloody male chauvinist... and you are giving it to him...
listen.. that guy is playing mind game with you... and you are letting him do that..... cos you are not realising one fact... that fact is that if he doesnt give you SPACE and RESPECT now... how do you expect to give it to you in a long run.....?????
you will lose big time in life.... just find another guy... m serious girl.... i have been there and done that..... you can easily come over this guy..... you are feeling depressed and low cos he has made you feel so... he just want to make your life misreable.... dont succumb to it.....
u will feel depressed only till you dont get another better guy.... and whats wrong in dating another guy....
even if you were married.... i would have suggested you to leave him..... thats the bestway out...
2006-12-21 17:24:24 · answer #3 · answered by mitr_hamesha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, SNAP OUT OF IT!!!!! Someone who is going to disrespect you that way and ABUSE you, calling you a prostitute and saying that he's going to break your hands?? Are u crazy??? Why would you even WANT him to message you back? LET HIM GO!!!! Girl u deserve better. You deserve a man that won't ever talk to you that way, that will only say sweet things and be romantic to you. A man that will apologise if he even gets the slightest out of hands. A man that you won't be scared of!!!! Love is a lot of things, but it sure as heck isn't fear.
2006-12-21 16:58:20 · answer #4 · answered by yleemoreno 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are extremely co-dependent with very low self esteem. Call your regular doctor and make an appointment, then turn off your cell phone for good.
2006-12-21 16:57:56 · answer #5 · answered by Ade 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
get ahold of yourself! i am sorry that you love him but if you go with him you will be heart miistreated pained, and abised more i know its not what you want to heaar but tell your parents )they will know more of the situation) or a friends and cut all contact with him, report his threats you could be in danger
2006-12-21 16:59:05 · answer #6 · answered by rebel_angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've asked about this before and my advice hasn't changed. Never, never never reply to this guy. It only encourages him. If you think you're actually in danger, get the police involved. Please quit crying. He is sick. It isn't your fault.
2006-12-21 16:59:50 · answer #7 · answered by mj_indigo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should just igmore him he abused you, and he has no right to do that.
2006-12-21 16:57:49 · answer #8 · answered by Eva 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋