It's because in dancing i took her place and then someone told her that i said i was a better dancer and now she's writing all these rude comments about me on my bebo/myspace. She said if i report her she will hurt me. I told her i didn't say anything about her, but she still doesn't believe me. She swore on my page and called me a nerd twice. What should i do?? I want to keep a clean school record, i don't want to get into a fight! I also don't want to comment on her myspace/bebo ever again. I don't want her to talk to me - ever! And i don't want to talk to her.. She even got one of her friend to write on my page that i can't dance. I never even said i could dance... Help?? I don't want to fight and swear back!
2006-12-21 16:02:21 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Grade-Schooler
School hasn't started yet, but it will in a few weeks.
2006-12-21 16:03:37 · update #1
It's actually called bebo but it's just like myspace except you can write on people's pages without being their friend and things like that. She's not in my friends list. No way.
2006-12-21 16:29:17 · update #2
Sweetie, I KNOW the feeling believe me. Instead of Dance, it was band. She's jealous of your talent. If she's threatening you like you say she is, risk it, and tell an adult! print off the pages that have the things written and show this to an adult. I know what its like OK? I was scared to go to a principle b/c they threatened me too. But you gotta do it, or she'll make your life miserable. I know its rough, be brave and know that you're not alone. I'll be praying for you.
2006-12-22 02:29:09 · answer #1 · answered by Crazy 4 Cats! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be the bigger person. I know it's hard but ignore it. She's doing it to make you angry. If you've told her you haven't said anything bad about her and apologized for the misunderstanding--that's all you can do. Just keep on keeping on and don't let her get in your way! You could write a statement on your bebo/myspace that states the circumstance--in a realistic way. This means keeping her both of you in good light--not making her out to be the bad guy or playing the victim. You could also block her from your website by deleting her as your friend or setting it to private. Best of Luck!
2006-12-21 16:05:23 · answer #2 · answered by .vato. 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Believe it or not, most bullies may act very tough and strong on the outside, however on the inside, they are very sensitive. That girl who has been bullying you might have been bullied by other people, and is just trying to pay back. Bullies often don't realise they are bullies until someone speaks up and tell them.
Maybe you should try talking to her, tell her that you don't feel comfortable with the way she's been treating you, ask her if she has any problems at home, she might have had fights with her mum and has no one to talk to about her feelings. Who knows, you two might become friends afterwards. Or if you don't want to talk to her, write her a note in class instead and pass it to her.
Next year you are going to high school, take my advice, if you don't want to be bullied again, you need to be assertive and act tough (not in the bad way) from the first day you enter high school. You must stand up for yourself and fight back to any bullies!
Good Luck next year!!
2006-12-21 17:16:52 · answer #3 · answered by No-one 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
boy...what a mess. I know you don't want to hear it, but maybe the best thing is to ignore her. Is there anyway you can block her from your space? Can you go to the Principal or Counselor of your school and tell them what has happend? Tell them exactly like you wrote it here, that you don't want to fight, you want a clean record. You sound like you are a really nice girl. The teachers need to know what a bully this kid is. I would tell them as soon as possible in case this gets worse. Have you told your parents? Any help there? Good luck.
2006-12-21 16:13:46 · answer #4 · answered by Becky F 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First off, why is she or anyone she knows on your myspace page? Set up the securities of it, and dont let them add comments or anything without your approval first. If you act like a doormat they will treat you like one just to have fun. Maybe she will make you angry enough that you will just snap and beat her ass before school starts. You need to do something that will embarras her really bad so she wont ever mess with you again. You should be able to think of something really good. :)
2006-12-21 16:18:10 · answer #5 · answered by redtiburon01 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Number One:
Tell an adult IMMEDIATELY. This is not optional. In our schools in Toronto we have a very strong anti-bullying campaign. The child will be sent home in this case. Talk to your parents, teachers, principal.
I would suggest also printing off your question here on Yahoo Answsers, and show it to them. This will really show them that you are serious, and that the problem is real.
You will have to do some studying on "bullying" to understand what kind of 'victims' they like, and how you may or may not be fitting into this profile. That is, instead of trying to shy away from confrontation, pleasing others, and staying out of trouble, you should care about yourself ("love yourself") and take care of your heart.
I was terribly bullied, so I can understand some of the feelings you may be having.
I do hope very much that you will overcome this.
2006-12-21 16:11:44 · answer #6 · answered by koontzman 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Awe man...I feel like kicking her you know what (except I'm a guy so I can't, it's probally wrong for me to say or even think that). But she sounds like such a b*tch. She's a bully and a hater. Just try to ignore her, but it sounds like she might not ignore you. Try to focus on your studies because things change once you get to College for the most part. None of those people will matter. Whatever happens, they're all loser's and your better than that. Stay strong and don't let her get to you.
Your awesome.
2006-12-21 16:14:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-15 10:16:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Young Lady, NEVER let someone dictate to you or threaten you!
You need to get up in her face, in school, where everyone can see and hear and tell her to make her move!
You need to look her straight into her eye, up close and personal!
If you need a baseball bat, get one! Don't do a lot of talking, do not threaten, look square into her eye and if any muscle on her flinch, put the bat into her gut, if you do not want to use the bat, then stand just far enough away from her so that you can kick her between the legs where it huts the most.
I did not say tickle, I said. bring her down to her knees with one kick, and as she goes down, you lay one on her jaw with your FIST, not a slap! Then walk away.
It is either now or its your butt!
For your future life, take Martial Arts!
2006-12-21 16:20:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well you know why she is doing this right? Your better than her. But i think you should print out what was posted on myspace, for proof just incase something were to happen. One time i wanted to confront someone in school, so i went to the principal, he let us use his office to talk with him present, while we talked it out. We got along after that. Good luck, keep your chin up :)
2006-12-21 16:07:15 · answer #10 · answered by mozartbuffy69 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋