leave him except i love the kid and he makes me happy. He can be a complete dick when i piss him off but is nice the rest of the time. Its not like he is abusive just when he gets mad he squeezes my arms really tight and pushes me into walls. Am i wrong for staying with him even tho my friends say leave? Any suggestions?
2006-12-21 15:57:48 · 19 answers · asked by Alyssa 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
im completly serious i dont see how it is abuse its not like he hits me really hard or anything. I just dont know what to do about ym friends because they are always making fun of him and calling him a jerk and **** and it makes me depressed
2006-12-21 16:34:25 · update #1
YES. LEAVE NOW!!!!!!! thats how abuse starts. and he is abusive. it only gets worse. i dont care if you love him. if you love yourself then get out. YOUR FRIENDS ARE RIGHT. he could go to jail if you turned him in. and you should do that to.
2006-12-21 16:00:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even if he makes you happy, im sure there are many other guys who can make you happy by treating you better, and giving you what you deserve. No girl should have to take that at all and no guy has the right to do that. In this situation, your friends probably know best. Im sorry but the truth is that if he is hurting you in any way, then he's abusive. Im sure there are so many other guys will really like you and simply talk to you calmly and work things out when he's mad. :) I hope everything works out well for you!
2006-12-22 00:08:23 · answer #2 · answered by Alexandra 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um pushing you into a wall is considered abusive and you don't have to take that. Listen to your friends, they probably see more than you can because they aren't blinded by love like you are. You can find so many better guys who won't squeeze your arms or push you into a wall.
2006-12-22 00:00:11 · answer #3 · answered by ashleyrt1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a joke right? You don't really think he's not abusive do you? If you're serious and you don't know it then squeezing your arm really tight and pushing you into walls IS abuse. I don't care how mad he gets, that is unacceptable. Your friends are right dump the bum.
2006-12-22 00:03:00 · answer #4 · answered by mjm52 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There is a reason why non of your friends like the guy, maybe they have seen the bruises on your arms courtesy of this idiot. No matter what you say, this is abuse, and unless he gets professional help, you should leave this situation now, before you end up with a broken nose or worse.
Get smart, good luck
2006-12-22 00:02:28 · answer #5 · answered by artist-oranit.com. 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Okay are you listening to yourself he squeezes your arm push you into walls whats next dont be stupid thats how the real abuse starts life is to short and its to many fish in the sea
2006-12-22 00:06:01 · answer #6 · answered by supergrl 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Does he really pushes you into walls? If so he IS abusive. His violence will get worse over time, trust me. Listen to your friends. They are just looking out for you.
Your boyfriend needs help.
2006-12-22 00:03:06 · answer #7 · answered by foxmoon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he acts like this, he shoudl not be the right guy for you. Imagine how he will act if you two are dating longer. He will get more comfortable treating you this way, and eventually it will escalate out of control. You should dump him anyways, because sooner or later he will hurt you, and it could be worse than squeezing your arms.
2006-12-22 00:02:07 · answer #8 · answered by Jillian 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have to agree with your friends, if you dont think by squeezing your arm .pushing you agains't the wall is not abusive, think real hard because it is. and being mad does not okay it. leave before it gets to late. and he reallyl hurts you. you deserve someone better.
2006-12-22 00:03:05 · answer #9 · answered by misty blue 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
"Gets" abusive? He's a loser, move on, there are plenty of fish in the sea who don't squeeze arms. He probably is not well endowed.
2006-12-22 00:00:57 · answer #10 · answered by him 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋