but he still haven't shown any sign for affection?! All we do is watch dvd and dinner. That's it. How do I konw if he interested in me or not?
2006-12-21 15:53:34 · 22 answers · asked by anne 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well first off, are you just looking to get laid, or are you interested in having a relationship with this guy?
You do know, of course, that there are guys out there who do not choose to have a physical relationship after only four dates.. This does not necessarily mean there's anything wrong with him or you for that matter.
Obviously he must be interested in you because you have had four dates. You don't say how close together these four dates are, but they do represent interest on his part.
If a physical relationship is all you're looking for, this may not be the guy for you.
Maybe the next time you go out, you can have a conversation about your relationship and see what his attitude is toward sex. It could be that he has a different set of values that he abides by.
Good luck!
2006-12-21 16:03:28 · answer #1 · answered by Gnome 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all if he asks you out so many times and doesnt show any affection to you it seems he respects you. do you really want him to just pounce on you, perhaps he likes a more forward woman if you're doing the old touching is arm when you speak to him about something funny then yes you're giving him clues or simply you may not be taliking about yourself enough he wants to make sure your his type silence sometimes conceals trouble he sounds like he really takes his time show him alot of interest in the things he enjoys the most get him a dvd player not an expensive one but you're showing him that your taking interest in his movies with you. or he also may not be sure you like him as a matter of fact i once talked to this girl who i thought was way attractive but i didnt think she was interested in me ( I delivered pizza at the time what did i expect) anyway later after i married and moved away I met her attending the same instituion I did earlier and she told me she was way into me I was so embarrassed because I had no idea. You can give him alot of hint without throwing yourself on him. take it easy he is. dont rush it.
2006-12-22 00:06:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a guy like me for 4 years and asked me out eat year and this year. I finally felt the connection between us. I realized that i liked him for more than a friend. Dinner and Dvds are great. I think you are wating surprises in your relationship now. Talk to him or give him clues that you do like him but you want him to show it in some kind of romanyic special way.
2006-12-21 23:56:17 · answer #3 · answered by Rachel N 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, four times isn't teetering on the brink of no interest. Maybe, he just moves slower than what you are used to. I say, by the next date you two should know one another well enough to figure out if you have some shared chemistry. And, remember sometimes guys are intimidated by young and attractive girls.
2006-12-21 23:58:08 · answer #4 · answered by Hear2Help 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you and him are eating or watching a DVD does he ever stare into your eyes like he is thinking about kissing you or anything to that effect?! Because he may be afriad to make the first move
2006-12-21 23:59:37 · answer #5 · answered by Mrs. Parrish 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have now been on four dates. So why don't u try and make the first move,like taking his hand in yours, see what happens. Obviously he likes spending time with you, so unless he is gay or just likes to be friend, when u make a subtle romantic move (take his hand is yours) you will see by his response where this is going.
Good luck, hope it works for you.
2006-12-21 23:58:33 · answer #6 · answered by artist-oranit.com. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him. Communication is the most important factor of ANY relationship, whether it be work, friendship or intimate. Find out about his feelings towards you. Finding all this out now, just might prevent you from wasting your time.
2006-12-21 23:57:09 · answer #7 · answered by Tara 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok youd think if a guy asks you out that hed be interested right. ok and so there may not be any affection now but if you like him go out with him and there will probably be affection then
2006-12-21 23:56:20 · answer #8 · answered by erin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may just be nervous. You cant wait for him to do all the moves! You gotta at least let him know you are interested. Good luck!
2006-12-21 23:56:36 · answer #9 · answered by tking 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would say something in the line of "hey, we have been on 4 dates so far, I was wondering where this is going" and see what he says.if he doesn't say anything, then don't go on any more
sounds like then he just wants to be movie buddies
2006-12-21 23:57:37 · answer #10 · answered by becca j 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋