I've dated a guy for about three weeks this summer. He wasn't really cute but looks didn't matter to me. He blew me off with no explanation as to why he chose to do that. He stopped calling me, stopped going out with me, and he even stopped visting me at work. Last weekend, he gave me a note telling me that he misses me and our friendship and he would like to try again. He gave me his phone number and I threw the note in the trash. I chose not to continue to be his friend because he blew me off and what he did was messed up. I chose to just say hi to him at work and not talk to him on the phone and not go out on dates with him. Did I make the right decision? Serious answers please. Thank You.
2006-12-21 15:41:02 · 14 answers · asked by Lady S 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you may have done the right thing. If that's what felt right in your heart then yeah, you did the right thing. But from reading this question it seems like you may have had second thoughts. There is nothing wrong about that I just feel that you feel that you should have given him another chance. I would have called him and asked him why he blew me off and how I felt about it. If his answer was "I am sorry" and he explained why he did it, you could have given him another chance. I his answer was" I forgot about you" and he wants to try again then throw him to the curb. But if he was sorry and felt really bad about what he did to you, you should give him a second chance. You still may have time. If you want you could find him at work and take my advise. But if you don't then I say continue on with your life and the right person shall come to you.
Good Luck, Happy Holidays, and God Bless you
2006-12-21 15:53:02 · answer #1 · answered by atlprincess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really think you did the very best decision a girl can make. The moment he blew you off means that he is just using you. Cheer up! You did the right thing.
2006-12-21 23:47:29 · answer #2 · answered by Marge 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
With no explanation??? He wants to try again? He wants to try what again? How would you even be able to make a decision without knowing what happened to begin with? Sweetie you did exactly the right thing. That guy isn't good enough for you. Find someone worthy of you.
2006-12-21 23:48:19 · answer #3 · answered by mjm52 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You made the right decision. He must think you have no life and was waiting for him to show back up. He got fooled.
2006-12-21 23:44:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You did make the right decision.
2006-12-21 23:46:44 · answer #5 · answered by JoJoBa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are better off without him. he has already shown you what he is like. just think if you were married to him and he kept walking out on you and wanted back into the relationship.
2006-12-21 23:49:09 · answer #6 · answered by rubyred 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you truly don't see a second chance, then you did the right thing.
2006-12-22 00:39:18 · answer #7 · answered by starr 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, if he wasnt sure sure he wanted to be seeing you, you can do better. Forget about him and move on. Have a good christmas
2006-12-21 23:43:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i believe u did because no girl deserves to be treated like that and if he didn't think you were good enough then he must not be good enough for you now
2006-12-21 23:44:10 · answer #9 · answered by vampires mistress 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think u have taken the right decision... u had given him a chance and he is not takin it seriously...
2006-12-21 23:47:07 · answer #10 · answered by tanmay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋