He lives in Oregon and I live in Illinois. we had an argument with his mom before I left Oregon and now it almost Christmas and he hasn't me called me yet.
should I move on or keep waiting for him?
2006-12-21 15:39:21 · 24 answers · asked by Rizza Monica S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Move on. It's obvious that he has.
2006-12-21 15:43:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chances are that he has lost a significant interest in a relationship, even if he did lose his cellphone, I find it unlikely that within one month he could not use a pay phone, a home phone or ask a friend to use his or her phone. Unless you have some very strong need to find out how this would resolve if you waited indefinitely, it is almost certainly in your best interest to stop bothering with him.
2006-12-21 17:19:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's rather hard to believe he couldn't call just because (if) he lost his cell phone. I'm sure there are other phones available in Oregon and if he wanted to hear from you, he would have called. I hope you are ready to move on.
2006-12-21 15:43:08 · answer #3 · answered by missingora 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would certainly need some closure. Meaning, call his home and talk to him. If you two are in a long distance relationship and rely alot on cell phones to keep contact.....then theres no excuse for this. Don't let him just drop you with no good reason or without explaining himself.
2006-12-21 15:42:04 · answer #4 · answered by Hear2Help 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is clear that he has moved on......and it's his loss not yours.
He sounds like he is extremely immature and thinks nothing of your feelings. People don't always do what they should....taking the easy way out.
A new year is around the corner....it's time to move on.
2006-12-21 15:47:19 · answer #5 · answered by Edisto 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry sweetheart, but it sounds like you'd be better off to just forget about him and move on. there are good guys out there who wouldn't let losing a cell phone stand in the way of getting ahold of you. trust me, you deserve better than this guy.
Best Wishes.
2006-12-21 15:46:06 · answer #6 · answered by atiana 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know the answer is move on.
Sorry.
Now you can spend the money that you were going to spend on visits, phone calls and gifts on yourself.
Enjoy.
2006-12-21 15:43:38 · answer #7 · answered by Jean Talon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing for you to do is to move on. I think that he is playing games with you and you don't have time for that. This does suck but there are plenty of fish in the sea. Good luck.
2006-12-21 15:43:11 · answer #8 · answered by Lady S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you can get ahold of him call him who cares what his mother says find out whats really going on and go from there but just a hint dont listen to anything his mom says she might be trying to do something fishy get the story from his mouth
2006-12-21 15:42:24 · answer #9 · answered by oopsman_09 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on, this guy is a asshole for not calling you, at least to let you know its over, which sadly it is. You'll find someone much nicer than him.
2006-12-21 15:41:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on! if he says he lost his cell and he really did then if he really did like u then he wwould call u from his house phone. move on! get a better man that doesnt lie
2006-12-21 15:43:33 · answer #11 · answered by Kristi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋