my x-boyfriend wants to get back together with me. there are just a few things that I am worried about. He is 17, doesn't go to school and is constantly working, smokes, and drinks. I know he's not good for me but I can't help how I feel. I want to get over him. I have a great boyfriend now that loves me no matter what. It's just that my x won't leave me alone and thinks we still have a chance. WHAT DO I DO????
2006-12-21 15:37:57 · 16 answers · asked by bg 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know he's a loser. I just can't seem to get him to leave me alone. He calls me every morning, usually I don't answer. He txts me and I delete them. I have told him a million times it's over, how do I get him to leave me alone?
2006-12-21 15:43:30 · update #1
DON'T DO IT!! I just had a flash back! I did the same thing and man do I regret it. I dropped out of shcool, and all kinds of bad stuff.
You are so young. These things aren't meant to last. You have your whole life ahead of you. Don't sell yourself short. You can have a bright, shinny, future! Girl, Be Strong!!
2006-12-21 15:44:13 · answer #1 · answered by Trin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave your ex alone. Do what's best for you as a person. Tell him there is no chance and get a clean break. It'll be better for both of you. Follow your heart, but don't let it lead you into a bad situation.
IMHO, your ex sounds like a loser. Sorry.
2006-12-21 23:40:34 · answer #2 · answered by chad5871 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You answered your question. He is not good for you. You will have to tell him in so certain terms that the party is over. Getting over him is easy. Love your current boyfriend more! He sounds like a good match.
2006-12-21 23:43:28 · answer #3 · answered by Monsieur Rick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lets see.... you admit he's not good for you, smokes, drinks and you want to get over him. Start getting over him by blowing out the relationship, he's a loser- you deserve better! You're "ex" is also a loser- thats why he's you're "ex". Start fresh, you pick who is good for YOU!
2006-12-21 23:42:45 · answer #4 · answered by him 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't get back with him, he sounds like a loser, plus he dropped school, and has no job, think about that!
2006-12-21 23:51:24 · answer #5 · answered by Shay. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay away from him you are too young to ruin your life with a looser like that. You have your whole life ahead of you, concentrate on you, your studies your family. The right "man" will come to your life when its the right time.
"Don't trow pearls to the swines"
2006-12-21 23:43:50 · answer #6 · answered by Intrigued 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you kinda hafta think about it like this..do you really want to waste your time on someone who you know is not good for you?? I know if can be hard because i am sure you still care about him, but sometimes it takes time to get over someone.. i say stick with the boyfriend who loves you.
2006-12-21 23:42:30 · answer #7 · answered by brittanybubbles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sit down and talk to him...last time that happen to me i just talked to my ex and explained what was going on if he really loves you he will either clean up his act and wait for you or he will leave you alone...thats all i can say
2006-12-22 00:05:40 · answer #8 · answered by vampires mistress 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let's see...your choices are to go for the uneducated drunk or the boyfriend your with now (that you gave no negative comment on).
Harassment is always a reason to go back to the drunk. I say go for it.
2006-12-21 23:43:30 · answer #9 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get back with your x, have a couple of pups and ruin your life, then come back here for somemore advice.
2006-12-21 23:41:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋