2006-12-21 15:37:05 · 11 answers · asked by Rose 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well how long have you been best friends for.... what was the situation.... if its worth loosing a friend over then cut off ties.... if its not then talk to them about it.... tell them that you didn't appreciate what they did to you and that it is going to take you a bit to regain their trust
2006-12-21 15:41:33 · answer #1 · answered by bilinda_82 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the first thing to do is to talk to them and get their point of view. there is always a chance that there is a misunderstanding. let them know how you feel about what happened and find out if they really meant to betray you or if it was "one of those things that just happens". if the person really didnt mean to betray you, you can patch up the misunderstanding. if it was intentional, then find out why and if the other person wants to continue the relationship. you may need to set some boundaries. if they have just turned on you for no good reason, then the relationship may be over. put the ball in their court and find out what their intentions are. most of the time it is a misunderstanding, or the person was put in a strange situation.
2006-12-21 15:44:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I had a "best friend" to betray me. And I have not spoken to her since. But if it is a smaller then try to forgive her. But then if it is something unforgetable then you can find a friend that is not like that and will be a great friend. But also put in consideration that you have memories with each other!
2006-12-21 15:44:21 · answer #3 · answered by Mrs. Parrish 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure she/he is your best friend? If so - I would ask for an explanation. Perhaps there are extenuating circumstances, perhaps as a friend they thought they were acting in your best interests. Is the betrayal a question of ethics - does it have any legal issues? You must put yourself in your friend shoes - never throw a way a friendship that could be salvaged.
2006-12-21 15:48:43 · answer #4 · answered by Tequila 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ignore her/him and drop them. If they betrayed you then they really aren't one of your best friends. Best friends don't do that to each other. If you really mean something to them they will come around. Just don't go crawling back in the mean time. you didn't do anything wrong
2006-12-21 15:50:45 · answer #5 · answered by bg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not sure, she has done this several times and I keep taking her back.....wish I had a backbone just to tell her to leave and not come back around.
2006-12-21 15:38:15 · answer #6 · answered by thats me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This has happened to me before.
Trust me... what goes around, comes around.
That person will get what they deserve.
Just ignore them. They don't deserve your attention. Don't let them control your feelings.
2006-12-21 15:39:25 · answer #7 · answered by ( Kelly ) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if they deliberatly betrayed you they weren't really your best fried. better off without them
2006-12-21 15:39:53 · answer #8 · answered by QandA 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously not you're not their best friend, blow them off, lots of friend fish in the see.
2006-12-21 15:39:41 · answer #9 · answered by him 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cut off all ties with them
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2006-12-21 15:38:05 · answer #10 · answered by devil_queen_biatch14 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋