you see his family don't like me...for a reason that isnt true. they dotn want us together but he still comes around.do i stay or go...
shouldn't he stand up for what he wants??
2006-12-21 15:26:59 · 10 answers · asked by gnuhbaby54 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Time to go. If he isn't willing to tell the world that he is with you and is not going to stand up for you then there is the beginning of a problem. Depending on his age and the situation at hand, this decision has to ultimately be up to you. Talk to him and tell him your concerns and ask him for his side of the story before you jump to conclusions but if you don't get an answer from him that is satisfactory to you then move on.
2006-12-21 15:38:47 · answer #1 · answered by lilphill1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, if he is not standing up to his family for you then why would you want to stay around? It is so hard to be in a relationship if the other persons family does not like you....maybe try staying with him and see how they react that you really do love him......this is one of those things that only time will tell....but then don't spend your whole life hoping that they will change...if they do not come around with in 6 months I would tell hime to make a stand for you or you are leaving.
2006-12-21 15:30:29 · answer #2 · answered by thats me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it is according how old the guy is... if he is still living at home and he is 16 say he needs to listen to his parents... Now if he is 18 or older then he is an adult and he needs to stand up and be the man...
2006-12-21 15:30:55 · answer #3 · answered by Autumns Destany 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is standing up for you whether you believe it or not, if he wasn't he'd stop the relationship with you due to his family. You got a keeper there.
2006-12-21 15:34:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats harder than it sounds and you left out some key factors like how old is he, how old are you, and are either of you still living with your parents if you still a minor like me than trust me its harder to stand up for your beliefs and your love at that point once he reaches 18 and/or moves out than it will become easier for him because they will either have to accept it or be left behind if he loves you enough if he is already 18 and/ or moved out than why the **** hasnt he stood up for you yet
2006-12-21 15:30:52 · answer #5 · answered by oopsman_09 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drop him and get you a honest man You are worth better than that do you have low selfesteem
2006-12-21 15:31:32 · answer #6 · answered by tellthetruth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may want financial stability which his family offers.
2006-12-21 15:30:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
His family doesn't like you and he likes that they don't. If he won't stick up for you, dump him. Do not hesitate.
2006-12-21 15:29:50 · answer #8 · answered by brilliantyetconfused 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
KEEP THE RELATIONSHIP ALIVE --TIME WILL TELL --HE STILL WANTS TO SPEND TIME TO
2006-12-21 15:34:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i donno
2006-12-21 15:29:10 · answer #10 · answered by sammie_428 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋