they know you're tired and you feel like sleeping...im curious is all, just want to know what guys would be thinkin in that situation. like do they think they can maybe try talk you round??
2006-12-21 15:23:18 · 25 answers · asked by ash1 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you were tired and wanted to sleep then why not go back to your own place.
2006-12-21 15:25:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
If a guy expects it right off the bat, then thats the first mistake right there. Sex should never be expected from either gender. Sex is something amazing and special that should go along with love, respect, trust, time and how well you know the person.
Going back to his place is not always bad...but if he expects u to stay the night...you are prob asking for trouble. Don't lead him on. Let him know up front where u stand on sex on the first date if he tries something you arent comfortable with. The bottom line is if he wont listen to you or respect your feelings and needs on the first date...he probably is never going to and isn't worth your time.
2006-12-21 15:37:09 · answer #2 · answered by rOw!dZ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
probably yes. Most guys have one thing on thier mind and if you are willing to go back to thier place to begin with. On the other hand there are some nice guys out there who would not expect anything especially if they knew you were tired or had a long way to go to get home. Be careful.
2006-12-21 15:29:56 · answer #3 · answered by lilphill1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If its a guy that ur serious with maybe not but if its a guy that ur interested in getting 2 know but dont know so well maybe so. I would say go and just stand ur ground because any guy that wants u only at night is an a**hole to begin with :) and then again u only live life once so throw caution to the wind and go!!!
2006-12-21 19:42:22 · answer #4 · answered by The Worrywart 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I am not a guy but I guarantee that is all that they are thinking if you say you will go back to their place. The number one thing that a man thinks about is sex....and I don't mean that to put a man down but 90% of men worry about getting sex. So, if you do not want to worry about having him put the moves on you for this one night and you have your own home to go to then just go your seperate ways for the evening.
2006-12-21 15:28:01 · answer #5 · answered by thats me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you already know the answer to this....But there are a few and I do mean few men that would respect your wishes to want to sleep. However think about your reputation, even if all you did was sleep when you were there the guy could say different and who is gonna question him?
2006-12-21 15:27:52 · answer #6 · answered by pllbrn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is the wrong kind of guy and only wants sex, yes, he will expect it.
However, if he is a gentleman and respects you and your wishes, he will make sure anything y'all do is mutual and if you are tired, it's probably best to go to your own home. You don't want to send any wrong messages/signals.
2006-12-21 15:27:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well guys think that all the time, not just when your going back to his place, keep that in mind, always...always...always....so it would depend how much you two are already having sex...if its not alot then he will be thinking it more than always....always...always.....so the only thing you can do is to tell us how you feel, and stick by that...the more you do both of those things, the more we will learn...but if you give in sometimes then he will remember that always always always.....why not just do a quicky and stop the fighting...youll like too, if not then your with the wrong guy...\
2006-12-21 15:33:04 · answer #8 · answered by wizzard 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if he didn't try to talk you into it, he wouldn't be a normal guy. Now if he's a good guy, he'll ask, and drop the subject when you tell him you're too tired.
2006-12-21 15:26:46 · answer #9 · answered by Miami Lilly 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are that tired, go home. If the opportunity presents itself , ANY opportunity,(alone at his place), a guy WILL try to talk you into sex.
2006-12-21 15:28:07 · answer #10 · answered by planb 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋