I go to a Christian Church and this guy (who is now the PK) and I grew up together. Him and I used to talk for hours, we were really good friends. About last year he started ignoring me. I mean not just at church but at basketball games (our brothers were on the same team) and at other homeschool events. He even used to come to my soccer games. Now the ony ones he comes to are when we play against his school. I don't know why. And I realy wish I did. All I want is to at least be friends. This all started happening around the time that I wnt to UKRAINE on a Mission Trip and about the time he started going to a christian school. I realy need a guys imput. Thanks
2006-12-21 15:21:00 · 7 answers · asked by Ashley S 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I have tried talking to him so far he talks to me when I talk to him. But he used to do all the talking and I enjoyed listening to him. I talked though. He has been giving me t he shortest answers possible
2006-12-21 17:24:51 · update #1
I don't flirt. It is dangerous
2006-12-21 17:25:53 · update #2
My BF told me that I should just tell him how I feel. I don't want to because at his school he has millions *little exaduration* of girls hanging on him all the time. I don't want to be like those girls. I want to be someone he can respect.
2006-12-21 17:28:35 · update #3
I know you wanted a guys opinion but I felt an urge to answer. I think you should buy him something you know he likes, walk up to him and say "hi, a little present for the season. Can we still be friends?.....I miss the conversations we used to have." Wish him a Merry Christmas & A Happy New Year. After all it's the time to be jolly and forgiving. If he is a christian and was a good friend, he will appreciate your thought.
2006-12-21 15:41:43 · answer #1 · answered by Mirts 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It probably has something to do with him going to Christian school. Maybe he found a girl there, and thinks it will look bad if he hangs out with you too much.
2006-12-21 23:24:09 · answer #2 · answered by dodgechica89 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
BE YOURSELF THEN DONT ACT TOO SMART. YOU ACT TO IGNORE HIM REALLY FOR SOMETIME IF HE HAS SOME FEELINGS FOR YOU HE WIL SURELY MAKE AN ATTEMPT TO TALK TO YOU IF NOT AFTER SOME TIME YOU JUST GO AND START TALKING WITH ASMALL PLEASENT "HI"
2006-12-21 23:27:14 · answer #3 · answered by chittu 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
DONT CONSENTLY WATE FOR HIM TO NOTICE YOU IGNORE HIM TRUST ME GUYS LOVE THE CHASE I SAID THE SAME THING TO MY FRIEND SHE DID GREAT IT FIGURES TO ME IF HE HASNT ASKED YOU OUT YET HE MAY THINK OF YOU AS JUST FRIENDS BUT I SAYGO AHEAD A ND GIVE IT A LITTLE BIT OF TIME I DONT TELL PEOPLE TO GIVE UP ON THERE CRUSHES I JUST TELL THEM DONT LET IT RUON YOUR LIFE
2006-12-21 23:27:45 · answer #4 · answered by nissie m 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Individuals do grow and drift apart. perhaps he has found another interest.You need nod grovel for his attention in that case.
2006-12-21 23:24:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
just talk to him. good luck and happy holidays
2006-12-21 23:24:34 · answer #6 · answered by Joho 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Try flirting........ it tends to get you more attention....
2006-12-21 23:25:51 · answer #7 · answered by ♥ @I_i ♥ 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋