Do my lover love me? should i stay or go?

Question

me and my lover are sexually active and been together for 2 years we have been through the arguments, pain, dates, happiness, good times and get aways for birthdays or just a special night. he told me he loves me and i said it back. but i don't know if he means it we've been seperated 3 times and moved on but always seem to get back together and finish where we left off the longest we've been seperated was 3 weeks.. i don't know i'm confused he has that i don't care atittude.

Answer 1

I'd be confused to...hmm there's two ways to think of it....one, break-ups can sometimes strenghten the relationship (but not 3 times).....two, it can be a waste of time trying .....but if you feel you are going nowhere and don't see the faith in your relationship or him? break-up for good...... I'm sure there's someone else out there for you! Good luck....

Answer 2

Lord isn't life too short for all this drama and trauma. Find someone who will love you, you shouldn't have to guess if your loved that should be evident every minute with someone who loves you. You may be meant to be together but this man needs to get a clue and start treating you right.

Answer 3

HEY ONLY HE KNOWS WHETHER HE REALLY LOVES U OR NOT
U HAVE TO STOP LETTING HIM COME BACK IN AND HAVE HIS WAY LIKE NOTHINGS HAPPENED MAKE HIS A$$ WAIT MAKE HIM TALK
MAKE HIM SIT DOWN AND BE COMPLETLY UPFRONT AND REAL WITH U

IF HE COMES BACK WHEN HE WANTS AND STILL GETS WHAT HE WANTS WHY WOULD HE TAKE U SERIOUSLY WHY WOULD HE WANT ANYTING MORE

I MEAN U DONT WANT TO BE ONE OF THOSE WOMEN WHO HAS A BOYFRIEND FOR 4 YEARS OR MORE IN STILL NOT ENGAGED OR BE ENGAGED 2 OR MORE YEARS AND STILL DONT MARRY U KNOW
U WANT TO KNOW THAT U ARE WORTH SOMETHING TO HIM AND THAT U MEAN SOMETHING
SO MAKE HIM
WAIT
AND TALK
AND IF HE WALKS AWAY FROM THAT
LET HIM KEEP WALKING...
GOOD LUCK MA

Answer 4

He's just trying to act tough maybe? He might be a little immature if he tries to act tough and emotionally distant like a "real" man.