The reason I ask is because it often seems like alot of ladies are drawn for some reason to assholes. Just curious.
2006-12-21 14:33:14 · 41 answers · asked by Steve H. 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm attracted to guys with some drive and ambition. Most guys who have that aren't exactly the sweet teddy bear types so it might look like to the casual observer that I want jerks but that's not true. If they do start crossing that admittedly fine line between driven and jerky, then I just let them go. Plus, I agree with another poster who said most women like money and looks over "caring" but they would probably never admit it. My advice to you would to focus on your goals and ambitions and don't bother writing poetry love letters etc.
2006-12-22 05:11:49 · answer #1 · answered by bunnychica1984 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess it depends sometimes on how the girl was raised in her family if she is attracted to an asshole. If her mom is with someone that is an ***, the girl sees that growing up and maybe thinks this is the type of guy to be around....
or sometimes the kind hearted guy is nice in the beginning then turn into assholes later.....
2006-12-21 14:39:53 · answer #2 · answered by Trese 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some girls are attracted to the bad boys. Often though you will find that women grow out of that stage. The older we get the more we realize just what we really need and want. The same goes for men as well. Men seem to look only at what is on the outside and ignore the kind of person the woman really is inside. Men usually outgrow that as well.
2006-12-21 14:38:14 · answer #3 · answered by GPHS 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
there are different types of girls some like assholes and some like the caring, sweet, kind harted guys and some like a little bit of both. some girls are drawn to assholes because thay think it is very sexy. good luck hope i helped!
2006-12-21 14:46:50 · answer #4 · answered by soccersam522 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I prefer caring, kind hearted guys. Course based on first sight it's what you're attracted to. And most girls like the hot sexy assholes. Whatever girl ends up with guys like you will be lucky!
2006-12-21 14:36:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My brother has said that too before, i think it has to do with are you manly other then caring?, strong "I AM A MAN" attitude seems to be what all women want. Not saying you don't have to stop being a caring,kind hearted guy, Girls love a man in control. not men who hit and swear at em. hope i made sense.
2006-12-21 14:40:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, women DO prefer caring, kind hearted guys...but not whiners. I only added that because some men think they are one and the same. That's not the case. A woman WANTS a confident man, who has high enough self esteem that he doesn't NEED to treat her like crap, to feel manly.
2006-12-21 14:36:07 · answer #7 · answered by Lisa E 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think all ladies will preffer a caring ,kind harted guy...why woul some one take care of an asshole..!!?
ladies/women are more bothered about their self dignity, rspect.
Hence i dont think any woman would go for an asshole
2006-12-21 14:36:03 · answer #8 · answered by Spirit of ~^Spirituality^~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I want the kind hearted guys I have things in common with. If they have a little attitude, depend on their other parts, I might go for them. My ex was sweet and for a long time was Mr. Right
2006-12-21 14:38:46 · answer #9 · answered by Artsy 1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's the women with no self esteem that love being treated like crap. A confident woman loves the kind-hearted guy.
Keep searching..she's out there.
2006-12-21 14:35:49 · answer #10 · answered by Miami Lilly 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋