I typically dont like guys like you? I have a friend i just met about a month ago. Well we hang out and hit it off just fine. We were supposed to go on a date a wile back, but we had a little dissagreement and she called it off. But we got past that, and things are cool now. Well we have been talking pretty often, and tuesday night we ended up drinking at her party and hooking up, all the way. Before we went through with it, I promised her it would not mess up our friendship. She said she normally was not attracted to guys like me(Black guys I am guessing) but she liked me alot. The next day I called her and things are cool. I asked her today if she wanted to hang out this weekend and she said she did not have plans and we could figure it out. The bad thing is I am 25 and she is 19, I know she is a little young, but she is pretty cool. what do you guys think of this situation? Should I just try to be her friend, or see if she makes a move again.
2006-12-21 14:32:49 · 15 answers · asked by ucfmanic 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
When a girl says i typically don't like guys like you they are bascially saying they never date guys like you but your different. Yes i know us girls we can be very diffcult at times. So im guessing she really likes you so i'd totally go for it. Prove her that her instincts about you were right. Be the nicest man ever. Good luck ;)
2006-12-21 14:48:27 · answer #1 · answered by Skye 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she's just surprised that she is attracted to you. Maybe even a little scared of how she's feeling, especially after you and her hooked up. Even if she is a little young, if you like her alot just wait and see if she acts interested. I dont think that the age difference is that big of a deal. I mean, maybe if you were 40 or something then it would, but if she already hooked up w/ you then it shouldn't matter. Good luck tho. Hopefully things will work out between you two.
2006-12-21 22:41:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should talk it over with her... and also find out what she meant by her comment about not liking guys like you (because it obviously had an effect on you). Figure out where you want this to go, and then do it! Oh, and 25 and 19 isn't bad at all...
2006-12-21 22:38:55 · answer #3 · answered by F.J. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm 19 and my fiance is 24, I don't see a problem with it and my family hasn't either. So I don't think the age difference is an issue. Just see where things go, the biggest mistake I"ve made in dating is overthinking.
2006-12-21 22:38:52 · answer #4 · answered by Lachelle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The two of you should get together and talk about the situation.
If you're comfortable enough to have sex with each other, you should be comfortable enough to talk about your feelings toward each other. Nobody on this website could possibly tell you what this girl is feeling.
As far as the age thing goes...love knows no boundaries.
Good luck!
2006-12-21 22:36:02 · answer #5 · answered by Fur and Fiction 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Age shouldn't really matter hear. Big deal, it's only 6 years. You're both adults and can do whatever you want, you don't have to deal with the law telling you what you can and cannot do hear, cuz you both don't pertain to those laws. I say go for it. There are two pains in life: the pain of physical anguish, and the pain of regret. Do what you're heart tells you and NEVER REGRET!!!
2006-12-21 22:40:58 · answer #6 · answered by Kayla K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if she got over the fact that she wasn't attracted to guys like you, and you guys are more than friends now, I would wait and see what happens next, I mean she had the problem in the first place, let her see if she still wants to be with you... good luck!
~arg_xo5
2006-12-21 22:38:20 · answer #7 · answered by arg_xo5 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marry her
or
You just screwed some guys wife of the future.
Ugh. I wouldnt want her for more than 5min.
2006-12-21 22:51:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well its not like she isn't of legal age but jus take things slow jus in case she feels different make sure you don't put pressure on her and give her space but not too much make her want u 3 times more than u want her
2006-12-21 22:39:25 · answer #9 · answered by lisa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude, i know you hit it already but i think y'all should just remain friend don't go chasing after it. if if come natural OK hook up again if not let it be
2006-12-21 22:37:59 · answer #10 · answered by Andrew B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋