When you tell a girl you love her are you just saying that because you want her to have sex with her or do you mean it. What do you expect after saying I love you or after having sex?
2006-12-21 14:31:47 · 24 answers · asked by CountryGirlygirl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
NOT NECESSARILY, MY MAN TOLD ME HE LOVED ME, AND IT WASN'T FOR SEX...HE LIVES FAR AWAY, SO IT WAS OBVIOUSLY BECAUSE HE FELT IT. ALTHOUGH SOME GUYS DO SAY THINGS JUST TO GET WHAT THEY WANT...THOSE ARE NOT WORTH YOUR TIME, SWEETIE...MOVE ON.
2006-12-21 14:35:09 · answer #1 · answered by ☼ Latina Loca loves Yayo ☼ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love is a powerful word . the emotion love is even more powerful .
lust is a powerful thing too sometimes lust and love get so confusing a guy or girl may not really know if they are in love or in lust so a person may say i love you and believe that completely yet the person is mistaken.
as a rule in order to not fall into the terrible practice of deception as it relates to love i think a girl or guy should be willing to accept the other person may be in love with them but that may be either a lie or a mistake. when both of you are at the point of believing that you are in love the chances are greater that love is really and no one is lying or mistaken
consider this if a guy says i love you then pressures you into having sex with him for the first time and the guy is not really seeming like he would stick around if you said no sex not yet then there is a really great Chance i love you was used as part of a plan to fool you . but again it understand that this lack of sex can be hard for the guy no pun intended but the two of you should be able to work out ways to sort out a relationship so it works for some time with out intercourse or any sexual act you don't feel you want to be part of
2006-12-21 22:44:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are with a guy a short time, he could say I love you over and over again and I wouldn't give him sex. Being with him for a few months and seeing how he reacts, how much attention he pays me, knowing we will not be ending up in bed and does he call me every day, then if after that time he says I love you, he just might mean it.
2006-12-21 22:35:57 · answer #3 · answered by Mightymo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Its a trick to get you to have sex with us. Its been a trick for about 10,000 years now. Moms, you know this, why aren't you telling your daughters this stuff. It's like 2+2=4 girls.
If the guy is single, or having an affair, after sex we expect you to
1. Get us another piece of pizza, before you lock the door behind you as you get the f*ck out.
2. Get us another beer, before you lock the door behind you as you get the f*ck out.
3. Get us another piece of pizza AND another beer, before you lock the door behind you as you get the f*ck out.
If the guy is married, we expect you to
1. Get us another piece of pizza, and the remote, then shut the f*ck up for a while.
2. Get us another beer, and the remote, then shut the f*ck up for a while.
3. Get us another piece of pizza AND another beer, and the remote, then shut the f*ck up for a while.
Got it? The process is simple, and easy. Even a blonde can handle it.
2006-12-21 22:44:34 · answer #4 · answered by warhorse 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally do not use that 3 word phrase unless I mean it. I told it to my wife several times a day because I truly loved her. In responce a simple I love you too was fine. Or I love you babe.
Never used it to get sex because it just doesnt flow nicely when it is forcely said.
2006-12-21 22:35:29 · answer #5 · answered by Cyrinos 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ha. You will never know so I decided to give them a clue. When approached by 'I love you' and they wanted a commitment... I suggested that they consider my plans. I planned an art career without children but if they were serious they may ask me again knowing that I would require at least 7 children to give up my career for a while. They were not to mention it again unless they could agree to my terms.
What is your terms? what do you want?
2006-12-21 22:36:30 · answer #6 · answered by nanbeloved 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? If you are a teen or younger it's a pretty good chance that's exactly what he is saying cause he knows you'll fall for it. It's one of the oldest trick in the book!
2006-12-21 22:35:00 · answer #7 · answered by Mercadies2000 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is a hot shot popular guy, Yeah. He will want you in his bed. A nice guy in the back of the room with a small smile every tI'me you look at him will mean it. people just use them until they are done. Just like Trash, and im sick and tired of seeing that happen to me and alot of very nice people.
2006-12-21 22:39:30 · answer #8 · answered by rickle91 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All depends on the guy really...see hoe long hes happy to go without sex for?
2006-12-21 22:34:38 · answer #9 · answered by Mike_Nelson 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Many many many guys will say "I love you" just to have sex with you. Then again, many many many guys will say "I love you" because they mean it.
Your best bet is to wait awhile before you sleep with a guy. Make him wait around as a sort of test to see why he is dating you.
2006-12-21 22:34:17 · answer #10 · answered by Fur and Fiction 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is that the only thing that comes to your mind when a guy says that? To think that our brains are in our pants? it seems to me that your head is in our pants. But anyways it all dependson the person, remember that all guys are different, and its up to you whether you let them in or not and to see that trust as not to an advance if it feels that things are getting rushed then yes but if things take time and such subject doesn't come often then you have to deside on that not him.
2006-12-21 22:40:56 · answer #11 · answered by kheno64 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋