Im Only 15 But Im In Love With A 24 Yr Old Tht My Mom Introduced Me Too.She Thinks It's Ok.I Really Love Him ALOTT But Im Tired Of Everyone Talkin Bout Us!What Should I Do?
2006-12-21 14:28:35 · 47 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Go for it, you can't help who you love! Just make sure you somewhat keep it on the low until you are sixteen, for his sake.
2006-12-21 14:31:57 · answer #1 · answered by . 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps this love is merely a crush. Perhaps not. Either way, don't date him or any such thing, at least not at this time. For one, you are young and have not lived life long enough to tell entirely true love from deep long-lasting crushes. Second of all, it is illegal. He cannot date you or be involved intimately with you while you are a minor. Once you turn 18 you are both legal adults and may find yourselves in truly deep love. Then you may date him to your hearts content. But not now. Not while you are still a minor.
Even though your mom says it's okay, that doesn't mean the law will agree with her. I don't know the entire relationship but if you do truly love him and he does truly love you back, three years will be a small price to pay for a loving, legal relationship.
Advising you to wait, and wishing you all the luck in your love life.
2006-12-21 14:34:32 · answer #2 · answered by Earnesty_in_life 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your mom introduced you, and she thinks it's ok? Sweetheart, it's NOT ok! It's illegal and wrong on so many levels. You're so young and you have lots of things to experience. You'll fall in and out of love many times in your life, trust me! I'm 29 and when I was 15 I felt the EXACT same way that you do now. You have your whole life to find the "right one" and fall in love. Right now you need to focus on your school, your friends and becoming the young adult that you are destined to become. If this 24 year old loves you like you think they do, then they should encourage you to see people your own age! Please rethink this, and take your time. You dont need to jump in head first without looking!
I think your mom should probably seek some counselling if she is encouraging this !
2006-12-21 14:33:42 · answer #3 · answered by nicole l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHAT??? You are 15! Yes it seems cool so if that is what you want you are going to have to deal with the talks and looks because you are still just a young beautiful girl, not legal to even purchase tobacco yet. This is the fun ages but not to have fun with some control freak, young buck, that can have you and someone legal that you won't even know about because your too young to chase him around like he can you. Please think about this because not only can you end up hurt but if you do love him think about what can happen if your friends mom decides to turn him in because of some note you wrote? He can be listed as a sex offender online for everyone to see. Never get a good job, go to jail and you will lose him too because that would just be too much to deal with. Think about it.
2006-12-21 14:37:51 · answer #4 · answered by want2know 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depending on what state you live in, there are laws against him dating you because you are a minor. Wait until you are 18, then you will be a little older and more mature and will be able to determine if you are really in love with him. But while you are a teenage, enjoy your time! When you get older you will look back and wish you wouldn't have grown up so fast.
2006-12-21 14:31:58 · answer #5 · answered by ashleyrt1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure you think you love him, and are flattered that he shows you attention. A friendship is not out of the question, but this relationship doesn't need to progress any further until you are older. He is in an entirely different stage of life than you are, and try as you might..you won't be able to relate to him on some levels.
Continue to be his friend, but be careful.
2006-12-21 14:31:19 · answer #6 · answered by vamedic4 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you were the mother of a 15 year old teen age girl, what would be your advice to her? Do you want your teenage daughter dating a grown man who is probably only trying to get into her young pants? Why don't you try thinking rationally? I don't know a single man of 24 who would date a girl your age simply cuz he likes her. If he does he's very immature for his age, and possibly slow.
2006-12-21 14:31:14 · answer #7 · answered by Smitten_Kitten 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is a big age difference for a 15 year old but if your mom aproves and you feel comfortable with it then its fine. Stop worrying about what everyone else thinks.... thats jsut their oppinion but its your life. Most are just jelious because they cant get a guy 9 years older than them. Im 14 and my boyfriend is 17. Everyone thinks thats a big age difference too but Iv learned not too care about everyone else.
2006-12-21 14:38:10 · answer #8 · answered by CountryGirlygirl 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you keep open lines of communication with your mom, and be sure and wait about physical activity with him, I think it should be ok. The hard part is waiting on the physical activity though... but you really need to be careful, as he could get in big trouble if you guys get physical. And as far as the love thing... well, it is usually pretty easy to mistake raging hormones for love at that age, but like I said... keep on talking with your mom and you should be fine. Don't hesitate to talk to her about ANYTHING.
2006-12-21 14:31:31 · answer #9 · answered by Viki 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow I'm 17 and I just went on a date with a 25 year old last night, but hell if she finds out my age I'm screwed. My advice is forget it and move on I'm sorry and no offence but if the 24 year old guy returns the feelings of a 15 year old girl theres something alittle wrong with him, so either way your in trouble, unhappy if he doesnt like you damn weird if he does!
2006-12-21 14:38:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Turn your head and walk away. DO NOT date him. You should be doing a dance machine, reading books, having slumber parties, listening to music with your friends. You are TOO YOUNG to be even thinking it is more than a crush. A good parent would tell you this.
2006-12-21 14:31:08 · answer #11 · answered by Kathryn R 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋