Okay, I know that most people will put most guys are just immature at this age, but I have never barely had a guy that will even LOOK like they are interested in me. I am not really shy or anything, and I don't think that I'm really that ugly or anything. Is it the way I act or am I just not really that pretty yet? HELP
2006-12-21 13:52:26 · 24 answers · asked by annabanana 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
don't even worry about that right now...yes iknow boys are on your mind :) but 13 is a young age still. I would wait a couple years. I had my first bf when i was a sophmore in high school. i was ready for one then. i don't know if i would have been able to handle it any time before. but you gotta wait for the righ tmoment and guys later on in life are more accepting of girls.
2006-12-21 14:00:17 · answer #1 · answered by alexandria 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about it. You're young, you have plenty of dating years ahead in your life. Right now (not to sound like a nerd) you need to focus on schoolwork so that you can afford to go on these dates when you're older. The fact is most guys that age are immature. They don't get the whole "communication" thing and "sensitivity" either. You don't want to force yourself to like someone only to get your heart broken or worse. When the right guy comes you'll know. I know that you might feel left out, but people often find love when they least expect it!
2006-12-21 22:00:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
do NOT worry about it!!!
i was homeschooled up until i was 13, then i went to school, and just like you - i felt that i was the only one without a boyfriend... so, somehow, i ended up with a "boyfriend"... but really, it is COMPLETELY pointless to even have one, and you even know why... they are immature! it is SO much better to just wait for a guy to find YOU so that he can sweep you off your feet...
trust me... it will happen. just give it some time - and dont try to grow up too fast (wow that sounds cheesy)... but really. you'll never get that time back!
concentrate on making friends with girls - those relationships will last a lifetime.. while (haha) the boys -- i'd give it a couple months, max.
2006-12-21 22:14:06 · answer #3 · answered by kibbyshibby89 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just wait, things like this come in good time. I've never had a boyfriend either and I'm going to be 13 in 6 months, you re not the only one:) You will probably have a boyfriend soon, and if you don't you should be proud of your virginity.
2006-12-21 21:57:10 · answer #4 · answered by Debbie 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No way. You are as beautiful as you feel. Do be so worried about trying to get a boyfriend at this age. Enjoy being you who you are and finding yourself. Boys at this age barely know who they are yet, and it will be a huge distraction for you now. Be who you are and the right one will come along when the time is right. Keep your head up!!!
Good luck, Happy Holidays, and God Bless
2006-12-21 22:01:37 · answer #5 · answered by atlprincess 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that to you it may seem that " everyone " has had or does have a b/f but I'm sure that's not really the case. You have a long road ahead of you so don't rush things. Just be yourself and you will see that someone will be interested in you.
2006-12-21 22:02:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe they are just to stupid to see that great personality of yours. My lil sis is 10 and most of the girls in her school have had a bf except her and its b/c of the way she ignores them and they are also afraid of her b/c she beats them up. But thats besides the point I think u will find someone interested in u soon. Just keep reading your horoscope and you'll be fine.
2006-12-21 21:57:39 · answer #7 · answered by Steph1490 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When you're 13 there really isn't a lot of good reasons to have a boyfriend.Cuz you really can't go any where unless your parents take you...and with most parents they'll probably get off with you and like stalk you and you're boyfriend!!lol Unless your parents are okay with you having a boyfriend then they might not stalk you on your date with him! =]
2006-12-21 22:00:18 · answer #8 · answered by Whatever! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about boys just yet. It seems like everyone has a boyfriend but alot don't and alot are just lieing to you. Be yourself with just more confidence and it never hurts to brush up your flirting techniques befor you dfind the right one. Happy Holidays and good luck!
2006-12-21 21:56:44 · answer #9 · answered by *Scandinavian Sweetheart* 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Every girl has that time when she feels alone without a boyfriend especially at that age. Give it time and be patient a guy will notice you. Because I think that you will be a special one that he will recognize.
2006-12-21 22:02:31 · answer #10 · answered by Shizzy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋