I know this sounds ridiculous but i have been in contact with a guy who I feel is in every way perfect. We have talked for hours on msn and the phone, and I feel so in love. He has sent me pictures every day and we connect in such an amazing way, we talk for hours each day. But how do I know if this is the real thing? He is willing to leave his life for me and I would too if i could trust that this is the right thing to do. What do you think?
2006-12-21 13:48:25 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You don't have to leave anybody. Just date them both.
2006-12-21 13:54:57 · answer #1 · answered by Sax M 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quite honestly, you are cheating on your boyfriend, I hope you do realize that. Also, the grass always tends to look greener on the other side. You said he seems perfect, and I know that you already know he's not really perfect. I'm just saying that it'd be a big risk to just give up and turn your back on everything for this guy. Sooner or later you will come to realize that it was a mistake if you leave your boyfriend for this guy you've never even met. Please, I urge you to think this through before you do anything rash.
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2006-12-21 13:58:57 · answer #2 · answered by Jenn 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
FIVE years is alot to give up on over someone who couldn't possibly care about you like your boyfriend right now who has held you and tried to understand when you were terribly upset, who has dodged your blows and hugged up to you even when you weren't in the mood. We all want to venture off and pretend there is a great true wonderful life out there but trust me after several years of trying to find it and being able to have any man I wanted I have realized that the truest of loves are the ones that stuck by us! and FIVE years is a long time to stand beside you! And still be in love with you!
2006-12-21 13:56:04 · answer #3 · answered by want2know 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are considering other people, your real life boyfriend may not be right for you anyway. In all those hours talking to the other guy, did you ever think of him? It's all up to you. You make the final decision.
2006-12-21 13:52:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow you are blessed to have someone that committed to you. Do you want to marry? If so, make a list of the qualities that are really important to YOU. Do you want to have children? Do you want to stay home after having kids - can his imcome support that? Is your faith important to you? Does you family accept him? do you like his family? Is he financially responsible and secure. Some things are negotiable, some are not. Write it down on paper to help you to decide. If the answer is no, then cut him free and allow him the rest of his life. Good luck - this is not easy.
2006-12-21 13:55:02 · answer #5 · answered by schmitty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
people sound so appetizing via the web, messenger, phone, etc. keep in mind that you don't know this person in real life.
if you have your doubts, meet this person before ruining a 5 yr relationship, just to find out -- then you will know more to make a wise decision. if the sparks are there, then you'll know more.
2006-12-21 13:50:50 · answer #6 · answered by Curious_One 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you never know...he could be some online freak...talk to your real bf.....how would you feel if the guy who is your supposed 'soulmate' is a fraud and that you lost the one thing you had that was real your boyfirend...it sounds like a hard situation...good luck, you'll make the right decision!
2006-12-21 13:51:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do I think? I think you are cheating already...might as well keep the current bf too... You really should feel bad about this. You are leading your current guy on. Thats horrible of you. I really think thats all that needs to be said.
2006-12-21 14:01:35 · answer #8 · answered by behr28 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with who you know the best. Your real life boyfriend of five years.
2006-12-21 13:56:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
save on with your heart. don;t caught to the guy who had abandoned you and your toddler for 5 years, basically because of the fact he's the father of your newborn. This new guy is effective, know-how and known you. If he known you and could settle on your newborn as his very own no count what, then he's unquestionably extreme! And to think of that he's no longer in a hurry and is providing you with time to think of, then he's respecting your thoughts to decide for the terrific suited guy for you. Pray and ask for the education!
2016-11-28 03:09:10 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you have to tell your boyfriend or break up with him, because it sounds like you are cheating on him already in a sense.
2006-12-21 13:53:44 · answer #11 · answered by AlaskaGirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋