My mother knows that I'm in love with him And that I want to go out with him . Somebody please help me .Give me tips. On how to get him to like me he's a hot boy!!!:-)
2006-12-21 13:45:17 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
awww, sorry to break it to you, you might like him alot but your yet to know what love really consist of. just find out if he likes you and if he does make the first move.
GOOD LUCK TO YOU
2006-12-21 13:47:51 · answer #1 · answered by Jessica 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all there is no way you can be in love and understand everything it is at 11 years old.Your brain has alot of developing to do yet. You are just a child, so be one and stop worrying about a boy any boy for that matter. You just have a crush and this boy at the tender age of 11 isn't the least bit interested in girls and you are the last thing on his mind and he should be the last on yours Go outside and play,it's so much more fun honey.
2006-12-21 22:04:38 · answer #2 · answered by Vicki A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, I know you are passionate, but Im not even sure you understand the words you are using.
You said you were in love with him, didnt you?
Are you ready commit to being with him for the next 70 years of your life? Are you ready to act in ways that limit your freedoms and give you more responsibilities for the next 70 years? Thats 7 times longer than you have been alive.
True love means love for life, you cant mean that. Even if you love him with everything you have, at best most of your personality formed in the last 5-6 years. You are either in, or about to enter puberty, and its going to seem like you are insane and the world is insane. Your heart, brain, body, and personality are all going to be radically different when you come out of puberty into adulthood. The choices you make now, can take away or hurt the choices of you as an adult. Are you ready to make those?
Your life should have less pain, not more. Your life should have less stress, and sorrow, not more. Choose the thing that a thousand adult women would chose to do in an instant if they could go back and do it. Choose to give up boys until you are out of puberty, and focus on making a life for yourself. When you are fully developed, and boys are mature enough to keep their promises (aka when they are older than 22) you can select any boy your heart wants to fall in love with.. but you cant select your ability to pay your bills, or what your lifestyle are. Lifestyle, and how you pay your bills are dominated by school, especially high school gpa.
The bible says "plant the fields, then build the house" and its good wisdom. Make yourself able to pay your bills, and feed your kids, then worry about having them.
If you are not ready to commit to going through childbirth, risking scary diseases, and are not ready to give the next 18 years of your life to raising your own baby, then dont DONT DONT DONT DONT DONT start chasing after "hot" boys.
You dont know what you are getting yourself into. You only get to be a kid for about 15 years, but the average woman lives to be around 80.. thats 65 years of adulthood. You are going to have plenty of time to be an adult. Spend the time you have being a kid, and make the most of that very very short opportunity.
2006-12-21 21:58:57 · answer #3 · answered by Curly 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well since you are 11, your mother would have to allow you to go on a date. But that's far from your problems. Honey, you can't be in love with someone if they don't love you back. You just have "feelings" for him that you have never experienced before. 11 may be young, but he should like you for you. Don't be someone you're not. First get to know him and be friends before you spill your beans and get your heart broken.
2006-12-21 21:49:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Awww... thats so cute I remember what it like to love someone that young. I think you should just be yourself and let him know that you like him. I know it might be scary but trust me it will work. I had the same poblem at your age and we ended up together. But there is one thing, you might have to wait for your guys realtionship to bloom, but if you really like him then it shouldnt be a problem. Good luck!!
2006-12-21 21:50:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
alright first you are not in love you just have a crush you are too young to love someone in the way married people do you could however love him as a friend and find him cute as in a crush but you can talk to your mom about it and she should be able to help you if not you could ask your crush if he likes you back and just tell him you like him
2006-12-21 21:49:05 · answer #6 · answered by marion r 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're 11??? What's that...sixth grade?? Not even out of grade school. Get some maturity and experience under your belt. Get used and abused a bunch of times till you're a burned out junkie living on the streets. Then you can try to find love.
2006-12-21 21:50:47 · answer #7 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
if you have had no past experiences with a guy, then don't be so sure it's love. i'm not just saying that cause u'r 11. i say it because i believe you have to know a person and grow with them for you to love them. and you can't make sumone like you, just flirt and be their friend for a while. they'll catch on.
2006-12-21 21:48:32 · answer #8 · answered by SHANNON. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
grow boobs. hah ur eleven, sorry but u got all them raging hormones barely startin to kick in. wait till ur a lil bit more mature. and dont say i dont know. i was 11 just 4 years ago and since then my voice has dropped about 4 octaves and ive gotten some funky hair. take ur time, uve got lots
2006-12-21 21:49:30 · answer #9 · answered by slightly confused 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
just start to talk to him and the first sign to tell him that you like him is to ask him if he likes anyone in your class? If he won't tell you than its probably you. So make the first move
2006-12-21 21:50:07 · answer #10 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋