are emotions important? particularly those 3 little words!?

Question

do you think it is important for a man to tell a girl he loves her, in a relationship of course, to tell her she is beautiful and to be even slightly romantic. would you stay with someone when you couldnt remember the last time they told you they loved you. what do the men think, is it hard for ye to open up? girls am i on my own thinking its really important andhelps build security in the realationship?

Answer 1

I wouldn't stay no to be honest, my bf tells me almost everyday in the morning and before we go asleep!!
Everybody needs to be told by someone that they are loved and appreciated!!
Im with you on this one

Answer 2

To some people, words are Important, to others, not so, it's the way that someone physically touches your arm or hand that bridges the gap between you both.

Sometimes, those 'I love you' words slip too easily from the tongue ~ while the 'And I Love you too' are almost like (if not the same as) pushing the button and hearing doorbells chime ~ or as a method of getting something from the other person with them that they might not normally give up.

And so, the importance of words is in part determined by the ability of the other person to be able to recognise when lies or half truths are being spoken, and or having the ability to accept what you do not want to hear and deal with it as an Adult, and not as a Child.

It used to be really difficult for me to 'open up' as I really didn't have the emotional vocabulary for it, and I was scared of simply saying the wrong thing - namely - saying what was going to cause the other person to feel hurt.

I had to learn about my own feelings, that they are not just 'black' or 'white' but that there are many shades of very few colours (some believe there are many colours, but the primal colour spectrum is actually very limited).

However, with all of that said, 'effective communications' between people is very important, with considerable failing rates.

Good luck.
Sash

Answer 3

The words are always needed at the beginning of most relationships. Women and men need to hear that they are loved and cared about, that they are attractive and sexy. It helps build a relationship.
As time goes on they are not as important as individual actions. Words eventually become less meaningful than doing something for the one you love without being asked to. Helping do something the other person may not like doing, such as cleaning a bathroom or helping clean the house etc.
And once in awhile buying that person a little something to say I was thinking of you without it having to be a holiday or birthday but just a token to say I still love you and always will.
I think the biggest key to success in a relationship is to treat the other person as your best friend. Keep in mind we often treat our friends better than our relatives or our loved ones so it really does work. My lady is my best friend, lover, and than wife. You will notice wife is the last thing because the other two are more important.

Answer 4

Yes they ar important. My bf and I work different places and we hardly see each other, so we text mssg cute things. It's nice to know someone appreciates you. Find different ways to say it too. Sometimes my bf will do something for me that lets me know he cares, like turn on a lamp for me when I'm reading, or bring soup when I'm sick. And I also occasionally hug or kiss him for no reason at all than just to touch him. Remember, "I love you" can be said in so may ways. Words, a look, a touch, a note left in a surprise spot, and lots of other ways too. Knowing someone loves you and is not afraid to show it reduces your stress level, and makes you feel good inside, as does returning the favor. And if we know you love us, we can open up alot more and do some of those things you really want us to do because we are more comfortable. Ok end of book. LOL. : )

Answer 5

have you ever heard the Rachmaninoff piano concertos? initiate with 2, attempt 3, then possibly a million and four. there is the symphonies, 2 is maximum admired and the main undemanding to appreciate i think of. Then there is the Sonata no. 2 in Bb it relatively is tremendously cool. Isle of the ineffective? it quite is tremendously heavy. Chopin? you gotta love Chopin. especially the ballades and the scherzi. seem up Chopin ballade and Chopin scherzo on youtube. Stravinsky? Firebird? you ought to like it. once you're feeling quite intense type, you ought to test some French song. attempt Ravel's l. a. Valse for length.

Answer 6

YES!!! Its extremely important for both partners to express their emotions! Relationships can go stale and boring if it becomes too familiar - at least with nice gestures and words it can keep the spark alive and let the other person know they're still thought of a lot and valued! xx

Answer 7

thats why it is called relationship , because of the emotions
otherwise u could just hang around with someone for fun
i think all of us need to hear caring loving things , that why we get involved in the first place .
and it does not matter if u are women or men , the needs are the same !

Answer 8

I think its always important to be told your loved but more important to feel the love if you know what i mean. Sayin i love you is just 3 words that when you think about it mean nothing. having the hugs and kisses are proff of that love. Put it this way, my fiencee used to tell me he loved me ever 5 mins, i found out yesterday he was shagging my best friend.

Answer 9

I know wat ur talkin about. It's really annoying. Honesty is the most important thing in a relationship, so just be open with her. If I were you, I'd just talk to her and tell her everything you just typed. And if she just says, "uh, i love you?" or something on those lines, ask her if she's sure. That is what i would do and i hope everything works out.

Answer 10

if you are in love with a girl tell hr you love her, if you are not .... do'nt. whatever you do, don't suffocate her with being over the top with the romance, but do tell her she looks beautiful, she should laso tell you you look great. It shoudl work both ways. It helps bulid confidence and discussion of basic feelings if the foundation of a relationship!!!