I'm soooooo confused!?
2006-12-21 13:34:58 · 44 answers · asked by cjrinkster 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Most guys don't really know what love is. Assume that a guy doesn't that will save you some heartache.
2006-12-21 13:37:43 · answer #1 · answered by alwaysmoose 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Okay... This does happen but it also depends on the guys maturity level and how honest the relationship is. Some guys like to just take you off the market until they find something better for them. Us girls do it to we just have a way of hiding it better. Kind of like this, You are looking for a really good job but all the jobs you are trained in and are educated for are all taken so you get a job that will hold you over as you are "working the field". BUT you have to make your boss think that this is the best job ever so you don't lose it until you find what you want. It would be better to tell your boss in the beginning your plan but you don't want to take a chance on losing what you do have until you find what you want. Just be careful out there and don't give up. Hold your heart close to you and love you not them until they love you first.
2006-12-21 13:44:57 · answer #2 · answered by want2know 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They only do that to girls who fall for that out dated shyt! When they see that they can pretend to love you, they drag it out to their advantage and to the best of their ability. Besides any guy that you date who has to ACT like he loves you is fake and you shouldn't even wanna be with a person like that. You can tell if a man's love is really ginuwine or not. If you can't tell and you don't know if a guy really loves you then chnaces are that he doesn't cause when you feel ginuwine love you don't have to ask nobody shyt. You will just know because you will feel warm and gentle, not CONFUSED, APREHENSIVE...or any other stressful emotion!
Love live life
-Candy
2006-12-21 13:44:17 · answer #3 · answered by StormyRain 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because men think thats what girls want.dont be confused.Men want one thing and one thing only no matter what the circumstance and that is to get in your pants.They will say anything and act any kinda way you require to give it up.Its very simple.Once they get it they can say that they did you or that they got some and if their friends dont think your hot they will not have any interest in you anymore and they will be very different than the sincere sweet guy who wanted to show you his love.Keep this rule.#1-give up the sex and you give him another story to tell his friends.If you want to know if a guy loves you or not tell him you wont ever give him sex until your married and if he sticks around then maybe just maybe he does.unfortunately its what he does after he gets it that matters and thats a gamble.Choose wisely
2006-12-21 14:00:10 · answer #4 · answered by savage_14u2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you act like you love someone, you've got a better chance of them liking you back. The more people that love you, the more friends you have/power/other stuff.
Sometimes this backfires, and the poeple you pretend to love end up hating you, other times their first impression forms a long term sentimental attachment, no matter how much they hate you, or get angry, underneath they still really admire and look-up to you.
That could be one reason.
2006-12-21 13:40:21 · answer #5 · answered by errr 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Men and women both want the same thing... but in different ways. And for guys, their hormones are screaming for sexual release. They know that the only way to get it is to give women what they want, which is that emotional connection. So, they will play the game to get you convinced that they are in it for the long term when they are actually only in it to get to their goal. The key then is communication -- and don't accept things because you want them to be true, but get to the bottom of the truth.
2006-12-21 13:38:51 · answer #6 · answered by dwacon 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Everybody wants to be loved. Some people will say anything just to feel admiration and love from someone.
Guys are confused a holes.
2006-12-21 13:37:17 · answer #7 · answered by Jenny 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
cause some dont know what the different of liking someone or love they get confused so they dont want to hurt someone feelings so they say love when they dont i dont really know why that is but some tend to do that alot
2006-12-21 13:45:55 · answer #8 · answered by miss_murder0308 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Firstly girls fall in love too easily/quickly and at first guys pretend to be in love also to see where the relationship is going.Basically girls want to make their mind up about someone quickly while a guy can go along for the ride.( pardon the pun ).
2006-12-21 13:40:30 · answer #9 · answered by mev 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Because you let them. Take control. You know deep down if he's lying or not. Trust your instincts - they are almost always right. Don't let him continue to lie - when you KNOW In your gut that he is. Dump his a** and don't look back - his loss, not yours!
People can only do to you what you let them.
2006-12-21 13:39:49 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋