We are hanging out a lot, but yesterday he invites some peoplei dont know and it wasnt so fun for me. He invited guys and girls, but was only talking to the girls, to two girls in fact. They were taking turns sitting in the same chair as him in bowling, poking him, giving him a lot of attention and i bet he was very happy. Id catch him looking at me a couple of times. I was sitting in the back alone looking pretty mad. I wasnt trying to catch any attention tho..
Later on he asks why im sitting there when they're taking pics and so i smile and get in the pic.
During dinner we were sitting down and his seat was empty, i could have sat there but i sat on the other side of the table with my two guy friends. He tried to talk to me during dinner but we were 2 far away to talk.
I called him that night to confirm plans about tommorw. He's only called me 2 or three times but ive called him some times to ask about plans. But usually we hang up in 2 mins not last night. he start talkn
2006-12-21 13:32:11 · 5 answers · asked by sam3345 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
explaining to me why he was "so close" with those girls.
asking me why i didnt sit near him at dinner... how much fun that would be
asking me to come to his firends bonfire on new years eve..
telling me that he wants to know me better .. that we should hang out more this break..
we were talking about these two people that liked each other and are coming ice skating.. discussing whether or not they should come.. he said "they can come.. hold hands or whatever and we can"
but iono if the we implies to my girlfriend thats coming too..
HELP whats up with him?
2006-12-21 13:34:40 · update #1
Dont over analyze the situation! Just have fun and dress hot and flirt with other dudes (a little). Make him come to you....
2006-12-21 13:37:16 · answer #1 · answered by Bo B 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, you shouldn't get mad, but you should have gone up to him and explained what the problem was. Then let the other girls know that he is your boyfriend. When he got up to take his turn, you should have gotten up from the back and sat in his chair and said something to the effect that you were going to keep your boyfriend's chair warm for him/ It's not like he's a mind reader and could tell that you were upset.
2006-12-21 13:42:54 · answer #2 · answered by sweetgurl13069 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Duh the answer is probably really obvious..... he doesn't like you!!!! if he did he would nev a hurt u like that.... bwt does he know that yr in 2 him cause guys r really booneheads if u dot tell them what u want them 2 no they will probabaly nev a guess... mayb he is only interested in u as a friend and nawt as a partner..... i think that u should (just as a test) ask one of yr guy friends out (one that talks loundly-so he'll hear) just da two of u and 2 a proper restarant ... if he loooks like he is uncomforatable or sad or confused ... play blond and ask him wats wrong.... trust me u'll no if he really cares 4 u @ that time ad if he doesn't no sweat ... u still have a date with someone else lined up......
2006-12-21 13:42:43 · answer #3 · answered by ♥ Lollie ♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you should be mad. Is there a commitment between the two of you? If not, then you have no reason to be mad. Just go with the flow and have lots of fun!!
2006-12-21 13:38:42 · answer #4 · answered by tamlovinlife2 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Isn't it obvious, hon? he's trying 2 make u jelous! but he dosen't want u 2 dump him either.
oxox,
Good luck, and God bless,
Lil' Lion
2006-12-21 13:41:32 · answer #5 · answered by Golden 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋