Well this guy i have been dating for bout 4 month he tells me he love me b4 we get off the phone most of the time.he just started to do this.now he's like waiting for me to say it.But i cant because i dont feel it.He's always busy and we hardly see each other.But yet he love me?I'm not seeing it
2006-12-21 13:17:00 · 12 answers · asked by bmoresassy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Honestly, my now husband and i are in love and have been for a while. We fell in love three days after we began knowing eachother and now we are happily married. It was lust at first sight and love after three days. LOL.
2006-12-21 13:21:59 · answer #1 · answered by beautyzhername 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he says he loves you then there is a good chance that he probably does. Guys usually dont just throw that word around in my experience.
however, if you are not feeling it...then dont say it. It is courageous of you to not feel like you just have to say it.
Dont say it unless you mean it....thats the bottom line.
People can get hurt.
you arent promising anything right?
2006-12-21 13:36:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him about it. My boyfriend and i talked about this and im a lot happier. I told him i wasnt going to say it back until i was sure because he deserved the truth. Also, let him realize that you're not going to fully believe he loves you if he doesnt back it up with some actions. love is a VERB.
2006-12-21 13:20:43 · answer #3 · answered by Missy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, it can be said too soon. i think four months, as long as he feels it, makes sense. but if you dont feel it, you have to tell the poor guy. its not fair, because everytime you talk, he puts himself out on a limb and he hopes that you will say it. just let him know that its not there. at least not yet.
2006-12-21 13:20:33 · answer #4 · answered by give it to me baby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think four months is way too early to say I love you.
2006-12-21 13:31:12 · answer #5 · answered by alwaysconfused 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you dont love some one dont tell some one that you do. it messes with thheir brain. he might be telling you he loves you cuase he does or he's trying to make up for his lost time.
2006-12-21 13:21:11 · answer #6 · answered by Alex 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's not to early i believe in love at first site
2006-12-21 13:20:44 · answer #7 · answered by honey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't see it, you are not feeling it. You may have to let him down easy.
2006-12-21 13:20:31 · answer #8 · answered by NAN G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you love someone and your sure about it its never too early
to say it but its better first to show it
2006-12-21 13:39:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think that if u dont love him, dont say it. only say wat u really feel. and if thats how he feels about u, u have to deal with it and b understandin and he should b da same way toward u
2006-12-21 13:22:04 · answer #10 · answered by Kay Sumthing 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋